that he always wanted another gurl and that he always thought about her during sex that he was using me to make him ***. Im 27 why would he hang onto me for so long?? im confused
2007-08-31 06:09:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, what an insensitive jerk. Dump this disrespectful yoyo immediately, he is not worthy of your love and affection. Give yourself some time, you be ok.
2007-08-31 06:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very insecure and dont always think before they act when it comes to the opposite sex. He was probably waiting around for this girl to be free meanwhile using you to pass the time. It's a harsh reality. Men wont move on until they have another sure thing. I am sorry that you have to experince this first hand.
2007-08-31 13:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be because he's a selfish male that hasn't got the balls to let you know that he's losing interest in you like a real man would do. Or maybe he is just so insensitive that he doesn't realize how deeply this would hurt you. Best of luck in finding a male who will respect you and give you the adoration we all deserve.
2007-08-31 13:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused any longer. He has helped you to make your decision. DO NOT allow him to continue to use any longer. Now that you are aware of his feelings, you will be crazy to even sit and second guess...Leave....
You deserve better. You deserve to be treating with respect and shown real love as I know you have shown him. You may have true feelings for him but do not allow your emotion to jar you from what you need to do.
Best Regards
It will all work for the best.
2007-08-31 13:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a guy like that in your life. He sounds like he has a mental problem. You should just walk away and i'm sure you'll have no trouble finding someone else who will treat you right. (and think about YOU during sex.)
2007-08-31 13:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Marquez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ... what an @ss ... instead of asking questions - why not move on and find somebody who is respectful and half way descent ... if you have the guts to actually tell somebody you've been using them for 2 yrs .... you have MAJOR issues ... obviously you don't need him ... good luck ... !
2007-08-31 13:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hugs. I've so been there.
dump his *** and don't look back.
you deserve to be with someone who is thrilled to get to be with you. I did. You can too.
But here's the thing --dating the other guys meant I didn't have to really be vulnerable ever (there was something in me unconsciously choosing people who didn't want to be with me), so I had to be in a scary but exciting situation of a new kind of relationship, does that make sense?
You'll be in my thoughts.
2007-08-31 13:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweets 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, lucky for you, he told you this BEFORE you married his sorry self. He USED you! That's what he just told you. The man has no character or moral fiber. Dump him as fast as you can and RUN in a different direction. I am So sorry.
2007-08-31 13:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 15 year old guy and even I think that he is a jerk. U need 2 let him go.
2007-08-31 13:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by lucky#7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he's probably insecure and immature. That is a terrible thing to base a relationship off of. Personally i would dump him.
2007-08-31 13:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋