I was telling a girl about how this weekend was going to be awesome. I told her about a movie coming out and a cookout we are having. I think she kinda took it like i was asking her out. She said that will be fun, but i am going to go see my grandma this weekend. Dont get me wrong i was going to ask her out, but why did she think i was asking her out?
2007-08-31 05:58:33 · 20 answers · asked by mason b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe because you kept on talking about it..how else would it concern her?
2007-08-31 06:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by determined_ladii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one: Never attempt to read between the lines when woman replies to a statement. Why? It will just drive you nuts and you'll end up jumping to conclusions, coming up with different opinions, either solicited or unsolicited that will only leave you in a more confused state of mind. My take is, just forget about it for now. If a similar situation arises again in the future, there and the politely and carefully confront her about it, ask out point blank! Not only will you find out, it'll save you all the hassle of wondering and pondering... peace!
2007-08-31 13:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Gamay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know that you like her before this...be/c if she does...then there's your answer.
If she didn't, You kind of hinted it to her that you were gonna ask her out, the way you brought up what was gonna happen this weekend & how you said it all vs. just saying "Hey, would you like to see a movie & come to my cookout this weekend"
2007-08-31 13:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by **annie anytime** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You unknowingly set it up when you mentioned the awesome weekend/ movie and cookout. I think the red flag was the word "movie", in particular. I guess she figured you wouldn't be chatting about having such a wonderful time unless you were inviting her to be there, too.
2007-08-31 13:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Cydara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth of it is that she likes you and she was looking for away to get you to ask her and when you didn't she worked her way into a date with you. But she is trying to feel you out so if you are interested in her play it cool and don't try to move to fast. the best way to find out what she wants is to stand close to her in a farely private spot and speak softly to her about something romantic and if she leans in to you then is the time to apply the first brushing kiss. From there its all in were you see it going ,but be cool and let her feel her way in to you that way you can find out how far she wants to go.
2007-08-31 13:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Glenn E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go with you and meet your grandma and then you will see if you even want to ask her out at all. Grandmas are a good way to find out how good a girl is for you.
2007-08-31 13:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by ATM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wishful thinking? Next time you talk to her, mention that you think that you gave her the wrong idea when you were discussing your plans for the weekend. Tell her that you weren't actually asking her to join you, you were just having a conversation...
2007-08-31 13:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c you started telling her about your plans for the weekend, like you wanted her to join in. What kinda heartless person would tell about their weekend plans but then say, oh but I don't want you there? She just kinda assumed and since you say you were going to anyway, there's no problem
2007-08-31 13:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the way you were talking about the events, came across as a buildup to you asking her...or perhaps she either had hopes (or fears) that you were going to ask her so her mind had that focus in spite of what words you were actually saying.
Sometimes we anticipate something so much that we react as if it occured, even when it didn't.
2007-08-31 13:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're acting like the girl in red dress at a party: putting on the light in libido room. so don't be surprised if there is reaction to the action.
2007-08-31 13:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by MARGUERITE C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you were hinting at stuff you thought might be fun for the both of you to do.
2007-08-31 13:08:09 · answer #11 · answered by Starieberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋