him to sleep if he is physically weak ?
2007-08-31 03:22:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm totally jealous of him.
2007-08-31 03:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
In 1983, I was in a car accident when took me about four years to recover from. During that time I stayed home and took care of our two daughters while my wife worked. It is an experience I would never give up. I grew closer to them (especially the younger who was only 6 months old when I started) then most fathers do to their children, and still share a wonderful relationship with them.
Those who condemn a woman working outside of the home are usually doing it when that working is optional, or when it involves the neglecting of children. If the husband is physcially weak, impaired, etc., or if there are no children, then there is nothing wrong with the woman working.
If the guy is a lazy bum who forces the woman to work, that is wrong. But if the guy is unable to work, that there is nothing wrong with the woman meeting the need.
May I suggest that you look up Proverbs 31 sometime (last chapter of the book). It speaks there of a vituous woman. Amoung that things that she does is raise before the rest of the family (while her husband is still sleeping) to provide food and clothing for them.
2007-08-31 10:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by dewcoons 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is physically weak and has some type of illness that prevents him from earning or if he concentrates on the kids and the home while you work, I see no problem with that. But if he's just sleeping all day and not earning anything, then you're being used.
2007-08-31 10:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We cannot make that judgment from here. We do not know how physically weak he is or why he is that way. However you sound like a wonderful wife if you are taking on the responsibility's of the head of the household along with the duties of a wife.
2007-08-31 10:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by saintrose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he seen a doctor? Is he truly physically weak, or could this be an act?
1 Timothy 5:8 But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.
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2007-08-31 10:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Hogie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is suffering from depression or a physical ailment like fibro-myalgia or chronic fatigue syndrome- best have him get checked by a doctor before you decide to check out on him!
2007-08-31 10:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Dotis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a partnership;-} hopefully equally shared.
If you took your vows in a church, you promised to help.
Maybe he needs medical attention, or some counselling.
If this isn't physical, it might be severe depression.
Talk to your minister, a social worker, or a doctor.
2007-08-31 10:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Robert S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a marriage is a couple surviving life, enjoying life and working together as one life. It has always been a give and take situations... if he is physically weak, what choice is there?
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2007-08-31 10:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-08-31 10:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure it's okay, but it's up to you if you think you love him enough to take care of him financially. Or maybe think about how to get a disability pension for him if he's seriously unable to work.
2007-08-31 10:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Amy Beware 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its depends on situations..
perhaps if he could help with you houseworks and children that would be better...
you r very loyal with your husband,..and In Islam, the reward is like heaven and earth...
anyway, be patient...there'll be the silver lining..
2007-08-31 10:33:25 · answer #11 · answered by singularity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋