If you are with a girl that has stretch marks (not from having children) is that a turn off to you or is it something that doesn't matter?
2007-08-31 02:15:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't help but hate my body. I got them when I was really young and now I'm stuck with them. It really hurts because I was never able to feel beautiful. No one has ever said anything to me about it but its always on my mind while I'm having sex. It has ruined my self esteem. I have to say that I am surprised at most of the answers. I really thought you guys would not like a girl with stretch marks. I'm starting to feel a little better about it now. Thanks so much :)
2007-08-31 02:30:07 · update #1
Turn off, so are veins and cellulite. But HEY not everyone can be perfect. If your with someone that loves you for you, then It shouldn't really matter
2007-08-31 02:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lazarus Cadaver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really to most people it doesn't matter. You have to realize that a huge part of the world population has stretch marks. I hate to tell you, but really it's not that big of a deal. To be honest I think you are more worried about it then him. Though I don't know the kind of guy you are with, but if he is making it an issue you need to find some other guy, because I can guarantee hands down if he makes that an issue, which you can't change, then he will pick you apart with every little thing, if he is worth it, then I say go for it, but if not then look somewhere else. Hope this helps.
-Ty
2007-08-31 09:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, different guys have different views on this matter. even though stretch marks is a common problem for girls i still personally think that physical flaws on a girl is a bit of a turn off, but not to the extent that it will destroy your relationship which is simply mental
2007-08-31 09:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by lukas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it doesn't really matter as long as the woman is nice caring and good to be around and there is chemistry between the 2 of you so the marks don't really matter
2007-08-31 09:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nearly EVERYONE has stretch marks somewhere. Do not even think about it. It is not a turnoff and doesn't matter at all!
2007-08-31 09:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by moss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously im not a guy but i have had the same issue in the past fortunatly every man i have been with has never had a problem with it it bothers the hell out of me but try not to worry so much about it because it prob isnt even as noticable as you think
2007-08-31 09:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by angela C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how bad they are. Usually everyone has a couple, from just growing up, but if its because you were really overwieght and then lost it all , then maybe, but if you are just overwieght then you need to find a guy who likes personality over physical, and yes there are plenty of them.
2007-08-31 09:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it should'nt matter to me. My girl is not a wax doll that I want her to be perfect looking. What makes nature beautiful is because of the pros and cons in it which is what makes it beautiful. I will love her anyways.
2007-08-31 09:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Xtrax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that really depends. If she has no personality, no sense of humour, no sex drive, no imagination, no money, and nothing else going for her, then she had better have a damn near perfect body.
2007-08-31 09:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Aleksandr M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doenst matter to me...all women are different physically.
No 2 women have the same body type
2007-08-31 09:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋