My boyfriend was on his email. I was casually glancing though it and saw an email from his ex. He saw me looking and clicked off it. He would not let me read it. So, I went on his email later and read it. (the email was a old one and nothing big). He is mad I went on his email. I am mad he wouldn't let me read it. Who is wrong here?
2007-08-31 02:11:43 · 15 answers · asked by Jules 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been dating 11 months.
2007-08-31 02:14:47 · update #1
Everyone here is right about the trust. It is necessary in having a good relationship. If he has nothing to hide about the email from his ex, then he shouldn't mind showing it to you. He won't have your trust long if he doesn't show you that its deserved.
2007-08-31 02:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are both wrong, and it shows neither of you has trust in the other. you didn't trust that it would be nothing, and he didn't trust you not to make a big deal out of something that wasn't. however, I feel that you were more wrong for snooping behind his back. email is personal, no matter who it is from. when he closed it, he made it clear that it was personal, and that he didn't want you to read it. you violated his trust by reading it. I get emails from an ex of mine from time to time. his wife knows he talks to me, and my boyfriend knows I talk to him. our emails are private on my end, and if I don't want my boyfriend to see them, then I don't show him. however, I trust him not to go off the deep end, and I wouldn't mind showing him if he asks. I just don't throw it in his face that I'm still friends with my ex...
2007-08-31 10:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by flgalinms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have been innocent enough but he certainly didnt help his situation by handling it like it was a big deal. In general unless there are children involved ex's are ex's and its not fair on the current love interest for there to be much involvement.
2007-08-31 09:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say a little of both. But next time let it go ok let him come to you about it. and also he doesnt need to be mad it was just an email.
2007-08-31 09:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Cameron Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your wrong,Thats his personal stuff.And obviusly it wasnt bad he knew there was nothing wrong.Gotta have trust in a relationship.My bf only goes on the pc when im in the shower or not in the room but i dont check his things.
2007-08-31 09:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by Gemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are! He obviously isn`t trust worthy and you know it! Old or not, he was hiding something from you. You are wrong for not trusting him and invading his privacy. BUT, on the other hand you did see something to be suspicious of and had every right to know the truth.
2007-08-31 09:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by MISTY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his email isn't your business.
YOU are wrong for snooping....
And it turned out the email wasn't even anything to worry about.
If he wanted to be with his ex, he'd break up with you.
I think that's the long and short of it.
2007-08-31 09:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both u shouldnt of been in his emails and he shouldnt have then kind of emails but if its from ages ago then there isnt anything to worry about
2007-08-31 09:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are cause you should be able to trust him and I just hate when females dont trust their man and just always gotta snoop!!!
2007-08-31 09:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by lilone_onpnt02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bc you snooped around. If you trust him you have nothing to worry about. He loves you and wants you. If he wanted her he would be with her. Dont worry and dont be a snooper!!
2007-08-31 09:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥M♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋