“It is not good that the man should be alone.” Genesis 2:18
2007-08-31 02:12:04
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answered by Anonymous
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a woman cant always be there fr a man, the way tht a man cant always be there fr a woman...i think its the same fr evryone. no human is full, whole and perfect. perfection only belongs to god. tht's why god created men n women to complete and complement each other. the way a woman cant stay by your side forever, its the same whn u cant stay by a woman's side forever. nothing lasts forever. not here. not for us. it isnt within our power to make thngs last forever, tht's smthng tht only god has control of. i'm sorry but i dnt think u're asking d right questions whn u say whether or not u r being fair to urslf bcoz prhaps the real question is whether or not u r being fair to the people around u whn u say tht they might stray away frm u, bcause at times each one of us might also stray away too... tht's how life is smtimes. u cant stay by someone's side forever n at the same time u cant expect people to stay by your side forever. but hey, tht's jst wht i think. u might think abt thngs dffrently, so it's cool.
2007-08-31 02:23:09
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answered by sin_chan8704 2
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I don't think you're being fair to yourself or any woman that you may potentially have in your life. You shouldn't be looking for a woman to complete you...you should be complete on your own and then find a woman who's personality compliments yours. You should read the parts of the bible that talk about marriage and men and women...we were created to be together.
2007-08-31 02:14:40
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answered by ? 3
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It depends on what you want. Paul very clearly writes in his letters that a man should dedicate his life to God's work and should focus there first. Then he goes on to say that if he cannot resist succumbing to sexual temptation, he should find one woman, make her his wife and devote himself to both God's work and that woman, who should also devote herself to God's work.
A lady above answered that you might be lonely with this approach to life and she might be right. But perhaps it depends on from whom you seek companionship, Christ, a woman, or some combination of both? Another answerer above also made a valid point that there is no such thing as a perfect woman (or man, for that matter) so in loving your fellow man, you do have to "take a risk" that people will let you down and disappoint you.
In the end, it is your choice. But if you do choose to have a woman in your life, be realistic and don't expect her to be perfect.
2007-08-31 02:12:24
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answer #4
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answered by lmnop 6
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it's true that god will always be there for you and it's also true that women can leave you any time. But god created not only men. He created also women. People should try to built relationships. Maybe you didn't find the right woman yet...Be patient!
2007-08-31 02:20:33
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answered by Małgorzata K 1
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No!
You say christ will be there all the time but the complany of a woman can make you feel alot less lonely.
You may find a person alot like you and your views will change.
P.S wm. aiden....Do you have to be such a sexist little ****?
With an attitude like that it's a miracle you get any!
2007-08-31 02:13:25
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answered by Anonymous
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No. You are right in that God will always be there for you, but He made women to be companions to men. It's not that you will ever find the perfect woman, but it would be nice to have someone to share thoughts with and be close to, right?
2007-08-31 02:12:23
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answer #7
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answered by Mujer Bonita 6
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Because your imaginary friend (God) is in your head, he will always be able to do anything for you (emotionally, spiritually, and since mind & body are so closely intertwined, physically as well)... I can't quite put my finger on it, but it does seem like that is quite unfair to both yourself and your future wife.
This standpoint is a typical Christian view... but if I were you I would not go around screaming it.
2007-08-31 02:18:16
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answered by vérité 6
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If you are using this as an excuse to stay away from relationships with women, then no, you are not being fair to yourself.
2007-08-31 02:11:46
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answer #9
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answered by moondriven 3
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God should always be first in ones life but God does have a helpmate for you...
2007-08-31 02:16:21
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answer #10
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answered by I give you the Glory Father ! 6
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