to sacrifice his son on that altar, only this is worse because I am not doing the killing with my bare hands, God is using her mind to rebel against what I think is good for her with her allergies?
I feel like I am giving up a daughter's life as a sacrifice for my healing ways with others! God is being mean to me!
Can you ask him to stop this? Can you find it in your heart to will this senseless ideas of my daughter that her cat is more important than her health?
2007-08-31 01:52:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My daughter contracted some sort of virus a few years back that attacked her respiratory system and left scarring. Then she got breast cancer and now mestastisized to her lungs. She has trouble breathing and keeps her exotic cat in the trailer and her husband says he will do whatever she wants to make her happy.
2007-08-31 01:54:18 · update #1
43rd Apostle, I would not joke about such things!
2007-08-31 02:01:37 · update #2
I blame God. I blame all of you, all of mankind. I blame me. We are all part of God. Together gatherred, we can do some awesome things to help, we can pray for and recieve some awesome miracles. But if you have some power within you to advertise, to study and to back up what I have told you about the seriousness of exotic cats in a home and the dangers to some people of even contacting cancer, and if you withhold this advantage and my daughter dies, it is because of you, because of the ones who taught my daughter to want this cat soo bad that she would be willing to give up her life for that cat! I blame all of humanity that has the common sense to spread the truth about human immune system responses and allergies and how they are dangerous and don't do it! I blame mothers and fathers that don't teach this enough! This is worse than cocaine or addictive drugs. My daughter will be dead because of a cuddly cat that people have been taught to adore in her living space!
2007-08-31 02:21:51 · update #3
I am her father and I am not being honored or respected! I have on occasion, tried to correct my other kids on dangerous behaviors. They don't listen either.
My son does cocaine and goes to jail sometimes. He is 32. I did not want him doing drugs, but when he left home, he did it anyway. He is now divorced and has a 7 year old son that he never sees. This all because he was taught by older people than me to disrespect me.
One of my daughters had a gas leak that I noticed in her apartment during a birthday party for one of her kids. I told her about it and she blew me off in a controlling manner. Next day she had a surprise inspection(thank God), of her apartment whereupon they found that she had a severe gas leak! She called and apologized to me!
How do I compete with the rest of society that teaches my kids to not pay attention to me when I notice danger in their lives? Why did God make me to be disrespected?
2007-08-31 02:28:02 · update #4
I didn't realize allergies could cause cancer and viruses.
2007-08-31 02:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe it is better to live a short happy life instead of a long miserable one. This is why people in misery kill themselves is that they'd rather die than have to put up with misery for 70+ years. If she is happy with what she is doing don't stop her. God is not taking your daughter away from you. If God wanted to take her he would have done it already. She's alive and thank your God for that, instead of blaming God for taking her Thank him for giving her to you in the first place. Count your blessings and be thankful for what you have been given. Let your daughter be happy. You say she is married? Then she is a grown woman, with her own life, and her own decisions. You can no longer make her decisions for her. God will take care of her he has for this long, have faith that he will continue to do so.
2007-08-31 09:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cat's Eye Angie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're out there honey! It sounds like she has made some choices that have negatively affected her. That is NOT God's fault!!! God does not "take" anyone's children, I don't care what has been said. It simply does not line up with God's Word. The enemy, the devil is the thief that steals, kills & destroys. Your lack of knowledge in what the bible says is why you seem to have a brick wall between you and God.
There are possibly some natural options that could work for her but it sounds pretty late in the game right now. I can email you an article on alternative cancer therapies if you wish. Send me your email address and I will send it to you.
2007-08-31 09:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by Free Thinker 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know that god is taking anyone from anyone but it does suck to watch someone you love die of cancer and let them make their own choices. I know that I took care of my mom five years ago as she died of liver cancer and now I moved from Alaska to Oregon to help my dad and be close to him since his diagnosis of lung cancer.
I am completely against radiation and chemo, i saw how well it worked with mom, but I take him to all of his chemo visits now that the radiation is over. It is his choice and although it breaks my heart to watch I have to support him, I love him. I try and try to find someone to blame but it is life/death. Death sucks but no one makes it out alive. I am sympathetic to your pain though and understand lashing out, it is definitely one of the stages of loss that humans typically go through.
Your daughter seems to love her cat (although I am not a fan of cats) so I would let her revel in that love because there really doesn't seem to be a lot of love to go around these days. Warm regards to you and yours and I hope you find peace while you are here. S
2007-09-01 03:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by scsspace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter lives! Yet while she is still alive there is always "hope". Spend quality time with her when you see her. Touch her tenderly and tell her you love her, do this often. Remind her and yourself about the happy times you two shared as she grew from a toddler. Continue to pray for her and remind her to pray for herself as well. Also, ask your Church family to pray, prayer is very powerful. At any rate you can still love and cherish your daughter now.
2007-08-31 09:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Gods don't cause allergies, viral infections or genetic damage. You can't blame your religion for your daughter's condition, it's just an unfortunate situation.
Is she able to take antihistamines for the allergies? I take them during spring for hayfever. They work wonders I tell you.
2007-08-31 09:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give your daughter and God some credit. She is able to choose wrong if she wishes. God gave her the option to do it. Your daughter, not God, is being mean to you. You can ask Him to stop her, but He gave her the will to choose. Tell your daughter what you think, give her some space, and cover her in prayer.
2007-08-31 09:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WE ALL HAVE OUR TIME,PLEASE BE STRONG IN OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST.Many healed at the seaside
M'r:3:7: But Jesus withdrew himself with his disciples to the sea: and a great multitude from Galilee followed him, and from Judaea,
M'r:3:8: And from Jerusalem, and from Idumaea, and from beyond Jordan; and they about Tyre and Sidon, a great multitude, when they had heard what great things he did, came unto him.
M'r:3:9: And he spake to his disciples, that a small ship should wait on him because of the multitude, lest they should throng him.
M'r:3:10: For he had healed many; insomuch that they pressed upon him for to touch him, as many as had plagues.
M'r:3:11: And unclean spirits, when they saw him, fell down before him, and cried, saying, Thou art the Son of God.
M'r:3:12: And he straitly charged them that they should not make him known.
PRAY AND ASK THE LORD TO FORGIVE YOU AND TO
BLESS YOUR DAUGHTER FROM ALL SICKNESS,DO NOT GIVE UP ON THE HOPE OF THE WORLD,HE IS
LOVE.
2007-08-31 09:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by flindo61 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It doesn't seem as though the cat is the cause of anything. The cat brings her joy. Don't destroy her last moments by trying to yank the one thing she loves out of her arms. Stay out of it. Let her husband take care of her. Be a friend.
2007-08-31 09:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Aiden 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sadly when god said it's your time he means business. no matter what it is very upsetting a loss but when god what a person by there side he chooses a person from his choice .
no matter what you can't run away from it. there was a story that said a king did not want his daughter to get hurt and prayed to god and went to church but when she was born she was locked up and isolated but one day a snake came in the washing and killed her or another story is in a car park a man was walking down to the elevator when a car came zooming ford and mist him by one inch and he was okay but another car came and killed him. it is just showing no matter what it will be unavoidable but don't blame it on god no matter what keep respecting and loving him and keep praying
2007-08-31 09:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
and you blame God for this...She is making her own choices and you say God is to blame...reread your stuff and tell me where God is to blame in all this,it was you who said her husband will do anything to make her happy,,think about it if she knows all to well that cat hurts her and she still does it,then what does that say,,she likes to live like this,,her free will...it is a choice she has decided to make..
2007-08-31 09:13:14 · answer #11 · answered by I give you the Glory Father ! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋