I am 19 years old. I am Female (a girl).
2007-08-31 01:39:24 · 11 answers · asked by Shivam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
19 is too young to get married. Tell your dad if you study higher you'll get a greater job
2007-08-31 01:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by the troll 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't marry unless you want to marry. It's tuff to make it in this world with even an associates degree or higher so a high school education doesn't mean much except for $9.00 an hour if you're lucky. Better yourself and go to school. In the meantime if you find the right guy, then you and him decide when and if you should get married. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, not a do it because somebody told you too type of thing.
2007-08-31 08:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Button 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to school! Please! I'm assuming you don't live in the US, though. I have a friend who is from the Middle East. Her parents allowed her to come to the US for undergradutate study, but now she's back over there and married off to someone her parents chose for her. She's not happy.
Do whatever you can to go to school. Find a good job, fall in love, marry who you want (or no one at all if that's your choice) and have the life you want...a life that makes *you* happy!
2007-08-31 08:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Natty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your father that going to a higher education school will help you find a better job. and tell him that you can find a more successful man in school. someone who can support you better.
i got married at 18 with no regrets but i still when to school.
2007-08-31 09:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously alot smarter than your Dad. Follow your own instincts and get a good education. That way you'll always be able to take care of yourself. If you meet a man someday that you want to be with, then you will, for the right reasons. You'll be with him because you WANT to be, not because you HAVE to be.
2007-08-31 08:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first you convence to your father that marriage is does not matter but education most require to all girl , because she has right to study higher. and in future she will get better option and better future that will help for her comming generation and she can teach her son or daughter.
2007-08-31 11:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nabin R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, is he just wanting you out of the house?
Does he feel that he is done taking care of you, and wants another man to take care of you now?
He does not realize that you can take care of yourself!
Is it tradional with him?
Does he not realize that you alone now hold the key to your own destiny?
He is wanting the best for you. Gotta love him!
good luck dearie!
2007-08-31 09:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rev. Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 19, do what you want to.
He can't force you to find someone, fall in love, and get married.
2007-08-31 10:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you wanna to make Daddy happy, He means well, i have an eleven year daughter and I kind of feel the same way.
PS. he doesn't want you to be sleeping around that's all it is ask him
2007-08-31 10:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by djmsr26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life... If you want to study, study.
2007-08-31 10:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by dandan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋