OK so I was at a party with this girl that i have liked for ages. We ended up kissing for several minutes and then she slept in my sleeping bag with me all night. Problem is she has a boy friend and now i don't know if she actually likes me or not. I am very confused and need advice.
What should i do?
2007-08-31 00:40:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she slept in your sleeping bag with you it's a safe assumption she likes you. That's exciting, but you should glide back down to earth for a moment and consider a few things before you get too far out there: this "boyfriend" thing is going to be a problem, and one that will escalate in scale the longer it goes unaddressed. The solution is simple enough, though. Explain to her that you'd love to continue seeing her, but that things are best done the right way. Once she has ended her relationship with this other guy you'll be free to enjoy your relationship with her without having to look constantly over your shoulder. Good luck to you.
2007-08-31 01:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit expecting more than what it is. If it happened once then you should have enjoyed your one moment with her and move on. If it happens again don't expect anything other than one nighters with her. Or you can just ask her in a direct way does she have feeling for you or not or what to make of the situation. Do not push her away by assuming anything.
2007-08-31 07:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to her about it.
You need to ask her if she has feelings for you and tell her that you do like her alot.
Talk to her about why it happened and if she thinks anything else is going to happen in the future and whats going on with her boyfriend!
Good luck x
2007-08-31 07:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tina=) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really only one thing you can do that may get you the answers you seek.
Talk to her.
She SHOULD tell you what's going on, if not, leave her alone. But! If she tells you how much she loves you and wants to have your babies, well, your in.
2007-08-31 07:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by Skaggy says: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her this:
what does friday mean to you?
i like you a lot and i know you
have a boyfriend, but i need
to know if you feel the same way
or if it was just a fling.
or
realize
that if she cheats on her boyfriend
she'll probably cheat on you too
and she probably not worth it
2007-08-31 07:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ashleyfoll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she is thinking about breaking it off with her bf. Dont let her have her cake and eat it too
2007-08-31 09:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lazarus Cadaver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let sleeping dogs lie
2007-08-31 07:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can forget about that boyfriend. You are her boyfriend now.
2007-08-31 07:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by Hani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she likes ya...and so what if she has a boyfriend...she is not married...so is all open game..
2007-08-31 07:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't kiss and tell.
don't be so trivial!! you where Mr there and then
2007-08-31 07:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by *Charli* Mamma Di Gemini's 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋