I really like one guy. He is intelligent, popular, good looking, mature, sporty...basically the "perfect guy." He likes me back, but hasn't got up the guts to say anything. I found out through my friends.
Another guy is ugly, very intelligent, pretty athletic, not popular at all and totally in love with me. I don't think I like him.
My heart is telling me (along with most of my friends) to go with number 2, but my head is saying that if I like number 1, why am I considering number 2? What's your opinion?
2007-08-31 00:12:46 · 4 answers · asked by frostie_icicle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How come your heart and head don't concur? You don't think you like guy number 2 but your heart tells you to go with him? Are you sure you don'y like him? He's ugly, but in what way? How important is that and popularity if your heart is telling you otherwise.
I'm confused now.
The guy who can't tell you he likes you himself needs to grow some balls. Until then don't make a decision about either.
2007-08-31 00:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Nati 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure how old you are, but Im a 41 year old single, married and divorced twice, went out with a lot of women, male. I can honestly say, that it will take getting burned enough times by guys like # 1, to actually start seeing guys like # 2. I used to be the same way with the chicks I dated. But let me tell you one thing for sure. The biggest caution flag that could be waved in front of your face, is when one of the opposite sex seems like " The Perfect One", because they usually are not. But you will probably choose # 1, no matter what any body tells you, so that's what I would do. Just because you have a good feeling about # 1, and not 2. So get it out of your system, and get it over with. Good luck, though, may I be completely wrong for the sake of your happiness.
2007-08-31 07:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by tom c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to choose. because if u choose number 2 always u think about 1. one and may be u blame your bf 2 for this and your relationship will go bad. but if u choose number 1 he can always find another girl because of his good looking.
ugly one always gives u much more...
2007-08-31 07:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by ike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one that you feel will be best suited for you. don't go by anyone elses advice. It you are not sure, don't go for either of them.
2007-08-31 07:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋