Well, this is what happened: I wrote a letter to my girl friend(we only went out for a few days) that said that i love her. The next day she said that she wanted to breakup with me, because my letter was to serious...Oh and im only 15 years old. So she told me why did i write her the letter, and i said i did it because i thought that was what she wanted to hear. Now she is so pissed at me, that when i write her anything, she throws it in my face. I dont know what To tell her... I m so sad right now. I really did mean what I wrote, but then she would have broken up with me if i said i ment it. What do i say to her
2007-08-31 00:01:15 · 8 answers · asked by Black_Sk8_Kid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is not ready for a serious relationship. She wants just casual dating. And the serious tone in her letter was alarming to her because she is not ready to commit herself long term with you.
Do not fret. She is correct - - you are both young. Be a friend to her and maybe the romance will be back.
2007-08-31 00:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is nothing to say. You live and learn right. No, it is not what we want to hear only a few days into a relationship. I don't think that you love her. I think that you're in love with the IDEA of wanting to be in love. Play it cool next time, don't mention the "L" word, and i guess if shes that mad at you for it, the only thing that you can do is apologize and let it at that. Move on kiddo.
Good luck
2007-08-31 07:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by mom to be 6/27/09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to give you three things I've learned over time:
1. Women are insane.
2. There are plenty of more fish in the sea.
3. You are too young to fall in love.
Also, never smother a girl with affection or express yourself too soon after the first date...you will drive her away. You gotta play things cool. Chicks like bad boys and dig confidence, if you sound too wimpy (i.e. express yourself in a love letter) you might drive her away.
2007-08-31 07:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by USAF, Retired 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. You are really in a sticky situation. That was a bad move to write a serious letter after a couple days...and then to say "I thought that was what you wanted to hear". *sigh*. You shouldv'e said you meant it if you did; that is better to hear.
2007-08-31 13:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by 4evatrue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its gonna freak out a girl if u tell her u love her within days of dating her. of course she isnt gonna totally believe it cuz love takes a long time to grow between a couple. maybe u should have waited a little longer to give her that letter!
2007-08-31 07:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should've told her instead of writing a letter.
Don't worry she's just angry. It will take time to calm down. Stick around with her. Don't cut off from your side.
2007-08-31 07:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Karan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nth ! just look for another 1
2007-08-31 07:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say good bye. Dude you really messed up...
2007-08-31 07:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Injun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋