why am i so nervous in school but not anywhere else?

Question

when im with friends, parties, events, im not so nervous because i know i can do whatever i like, but when im in school, i feel so nervous and restricted.. i dont know why , it feels REALLY awkward and very uncomfortable for me.. i dont know why i am like this, this has never happened before until the past year where ive been in a 2 yr relationship.. seems like ever since i got a girlfriend for soo long and so serious, ive been really DIFFERENT.. more nervous & etc in situations where before i wasnt..

but when it comes to chillen with homies or jobs or interviews or etc im not nervous at all, its basically ONLY IN SCHOOL.. or in public events where u gotta stay quiet?

this is my 2nd & 1/2 year in college btw.. and it started happening past few semesters?

Answer 1

You have a problem with anxiety......go see a dr. and get some medicine for it.

Answer 2

When I was in High School my stomach
would get so upset when I was waiting for
the bus. A few times I went back home.

I began to notice that my upset stomach
would go away as soon as I got off the
School Bus, and walked inside the School.
I think I must have HATED the twenty
minuet bus ride to school bad enough
to make me feel sick.

Talk to your Doctor about your problem.
It could be anxiety, when having to be
so quiet.

Answer 3

You probably do not like the regimen of being in school.
In school you have to be a sponge and sit there and soak up so much information.
When you are not in school you do not have to be so focused for such a long period of time.
When you are not in school you can be yourself.

Answer 4

Maybe, because at school you are challenged. It's a competitive middle. Also, you may unconsciously be affected by an inferiority complex.