it's the first time for both of us, and I really want to have a try...But how could talk about it?
2007-08-30 21:10:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why try something that you've never tried before??? What are you missing out on??? What you don't know, won't hurt you, there will always be enough time to have Sex but at the right time and for the right reasons. I don't see why you guys have to have Sex, just to ''experience it'' or because everyone is doing it, it just aint worth it. Trust be, once you've had Sex, it will be nice and you would want it all the time, but in thee end you'll regret not waiting for the right time, or until marriage, because it is more special to have Sex when you are married, instead of just having in just for fun, when you are just dating....Think about it carefully, what ever you decide, hope you can carry the consequences that comes with it.....
2007-08-30 21:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer my friend is Biblical, "Ask and ye shall receive"
If you feel that the time has come, tell him how you feel about sex, and ask him if he feels the same way at this point. Then, simply ask. The worst that can happen is he will say no. If the relationship is where you both accept it to be as a strong and bonded relationship, then both of you should have no issue in continuing to wait.
2007-08-31 04:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be better off talking to other older females whom you respect than asking a bunch of Yahoos. I'm a guy and could give you advice like,'lay in bed naked' or something equally bad or worse. I think you'd choose wisely talking to women you know.
2007-08-31 04:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready for a child for the next 18 yrs? Will he support that child for the next 18 yrs?
What if you get pregnant and you have a special needs child? Are you really ready for that?
If not, keep you pants ON!
The Rat
2007-08-31 05:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why talk? Just make a move. Chances are he wants to just as badly as you do and he can't make the first move. If you've done everything you can, then that's all you can, but TALK is over... make the first move...
2007-08-31 04:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should just let it happen naturally, if its meant to happen it will happen if not then there's nothing wrong with waiting. If you trust eachother you should feel comfortable enough to say you dont want to if you dont want to.
2007-08-31 05:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by {{Chloe}} 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really get it with u girls... u wan2 have sex for wat??? just for the sake of experiencing it??? don't u think u have other important things to do rather than have sex??? anyway.. its ur life and ur future... if u wanna have sex.. just ask him that u wanna have sex... it's that simple... b4 u do it... since its both ur first time... y not ask urselves it this is wat u really wan2do... if u'er really prepared to do it... are u willing to accept the consequences after it... like pregnancy... AIDS... health problems... parents... and all those... if ur prepared and willing to accept all those responsibilities... then go ahead... no ones gonna stop u...
2007-08-31 04:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by Zykoe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A RELATION MUST BE SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL.
...what you all are saying is crazy, is the result of a sad, dirty society.
Please wait to grow and to find the ONE that you will want to be with all your life!
Take very good care!
2007-08-31 04:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Buy condoms one night before you two are hanging out alone. Then tell him that you have condoms for later that night. Make sure you have lots of foreplay.
2007-08-31 04:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cut the talking and procrastination and just do it !
It start with kidding, caressing, and then it goes on NATURALLY.
It's not something we "talk" about. Its purely ACTION thing.
2007-08-31 04:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋