She has proposed to him and he has politely refused it. She is still in love with him and he says they both are just friends.. Iam torn apart in this. I seriously love him and am suffering from possessiveness to this guy.. Tell me how to alleviate this possessiveness on him.?
2007-08-30 21:09:02 · 15 answers · asked by Toxicologist of tomoro... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop thinking abt dis yaar, act lyk a grown up, my bf has more den 400 frns as girls, n i m nt joking, they also propose him bt he refuses, he tells me 2, bt i nvr fight, rather u shud be glad, dat he loves u n nt her, if he is telling u dat a girl proposed him n he refused, he is truthful, n loves u, dun worry yaar, it happens, bt at d same tym trust him lyk anything, drop ur possessiveness,,, smtyms, dis creates a lot of probs....
2007-08-30 23:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Leon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you want to control or posses a man - the more he will run away!!
Don´t show your jealousy, men don´t like jealous women.
He says they are just friends and has refused her proposal? So, what do you worry about? First of all, you have to learn to trust.
And by the way, if you are in love with this guy, it might be helpful to go a step ahead and let him know, don´t you think?
So you would stop suffering.
2007-08-31 05:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you confusing your desire to control your man with love? Dont because if you start a relationship with him based on your need to control him then it wont matter about this girl coming between you cos there will always be another girl. So if the issue isnt that the girl is a friend of yours and you are feeling guilty about your feelings for him or that you dont trust that he doesnt have any feelings for this girl when he says he doesnt then honey it looks like you may have issues with low self esteem. Trust the guy, trust yourself and let go of your feelings to control him and feel the deep love that should be more than about control....
2007-08-31 04:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by darthmawler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right in being possessive about your boyfriend. Since that girl has already proposed to him once, she is a threat to you. According to me, they should'nt be friends anymore. You have to tell your boyfriend to stop being her friend if he really loves you. He cannot be friends with a girl who still loves him and might try to take him away from you. Talk to him and make him understand.
2007-08-31 09:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by SS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hard to eliminate possessiveness, had it for years... You can try slitting this other bitche's throat and getting her out of the picture.
2007-08-31 04:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want the solution quickly.
then you all three should sit together and should express your feelings(all three)...and everything should be clear.
Then no prob will be there.
and if you will try to solve it another way.
then it will take time, and you will keep hurting yourself.
so do whatever you like
2007-08-31 04:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by The Guru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would make my thoughts abt dis girl, crystal clear to him.
Theres nothin wrong with what you feeling
2007-08-31 04:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ladylove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. Go for frequent datings. Hug him, suck him, seduce him and propose him as soon as possible.
2007-08-31 05:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by cnkhadga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that You are in love with her and your boyfriend is in love with your father. She might run away (if she is normal)
2007-08-31 14:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by OnlyHumor RAJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u too, so maybe he'll propose to u
2007-08-31 04:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋