Im a flight attendant and I get a 12 buddy passes (free flights) per year that I can give to my friends. This guy that I've gone on a few dates with sent me a text message asking for one so he could see his friend in another state over labor day weekend. This guy hasnt even called me in about 2 weeks. Besides I only use my tickets on guys if they want to come visit ME or take a trip with ME. Not so they can go party in another state on my passes without inviting me. I dont know if I should tell this guy how much this makes me feel used or just say "no" and leave it at that. I wonder if he's even aware that what he's asking from me is crossing the line. What should I do?
2007-08-30 20:26:11 · 15 answers · asked by Ms Liz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you're being used. just say no and delete his number from your phone. that's awful and shameless of that guy! jeez, some people have some nerve ~unbelievable.
2007-08-30 20:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by vixen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
follow your feelings because those hard earned benefits. tell him to kiss a horse @ss!!! Use those benefits for you! Plan your dream vacation and let the buttmunch in the snow. Give him a ticket to Fairbanks , Alaska Feb St Valentines day! LOL A good chuckle but just a joke. Go by yourself or a good friend you trust.
2007-08-30 20:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can still cancel the ticket, cancel it and go ahead and tell him what you did. I guess you realized the situation you're in, and I would have felt used as well. Anyway, if you can't cancel the ticket, oh well, it's just a flight ticket. You surely will find a better guy.............(:
2007-08-30 20:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Pro90 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that all of your passes have been reserved for other plans. Tell him that if he checks with a travel agency, he might be able to get a good rate. If he is using you, why do you care what he thinks. You certainly would not be losing a friend, he was never your friend to begin with. What he did was nervy if you ask me.
2007-08-30 20:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that hes really cheep to ask you for a free ticket... I mean airfare is not that expensive. Its one thing if you offered it to him.. but asking for it... thats wrong... I would say just dont call him back for a while.. not exactly sure how you should handle it.. just dont give him the free airfare !!
2007-08-30 20:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Should tell him no and tell me yes I need to fly to Miami in October and you are more than welcomed to come. As a matter a fact you should come we will be there to party our asses off. Naw really F him and tell him to quit being cheap and buy his own damn ticket.
2007-08-30 20:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Text him back that you don't have anymore tickets because your family or someone else has already reserved the tickets. Don't get used and don't call him, he doesn't deserve your time.
2007-08-30 20:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by bama_turtle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. make him see his error in his ways. if he keeps up or dont see what he is doing to you then say no to the free tickets for him
2007-08-30 20:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just politely tell him "No." Obviously he thinks the two of you are closer than you really are, so just clue him in gently. He should get the message.
2007-08-30 20:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Marc M 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He did not call you for two weeks, and then calls asking for a pass? Just say "No", no need to be melodramatic and explain things. "No". Or "**** off" is good too.
2007-08-30 20:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kaytee 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋