solid answer. Well, I met this woman who is not 20 something but early 30's. We met outside her work while she took a smoke break. Well we hit it off cause we talked for about 24 mins. we made plans to go out for coffee last weekend and it didnt work out cause she said she was sick. well i texted her today and she responded kindly. well we made plans to maybe go this weekend. well out of nowhere tonight she texted me saying whats happening hottie? I responded you beautiful, she texted back you are sweet. then I texted back where are you at lover? she never responded. and thats all I heard from her tonight. Man why do you think she is so fickle acting? off and on hot and cold? man please explain
2007-08-30 20:13:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cant throw the pet names out there too fast. It may scare her off.
2007-08-30 21:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have something for you.
Go to Bristollair.com
start with the article 'A Secret Women Know' on the left menu.
Let me know after you checked out the info if it helps you to understand whats going on in the female brain.
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Hunny Bunz below is close to the truth. women dont approach guys, they dont have too and yet they have more options than the average guy does.
How to solve that unfair problem of nature?
2007-08-31 03:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, and this came from women I know, who better than a woman to tell you about a woman, but anyway...women don't even know what is goin' on sometimes, so don't feel bad. Who knows, she might just like the attention you give her, don't give her any, and when she contacts you, keep the affection to a minimum, but you can still be nice. She might start doin' more to engage you, then...BLAM, she's blindsided not knowing what happened and wakes up in bed beside you...hey, I told you even women don't know what they want sometimes.
2007-08-31 03:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly in this situation I think she has others on the line and something else worked out instead of being with you. Older women know what they want, and anymore do whatever. She's not sitting home waiting for someone to call her, she's in the mix and living life.
2007-08-31 03:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well she was flirting with you but calling her lover probably set off a red flag in her mind. Hottie, beautiful, flirting. Lover...you havent even hung out together yet
2007-08-31 03:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
naybe because you called her lover and you jsut met her..thats kind of off puting like you are moving too fast
or maybe sumthing happend what ever happend to calling someone? maybe call her and act as if you didnt get her last text... maybe say you got an error text or sumthing and see what she says
2007-08-31 03:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by amandica82 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well possibly she's trying to play hard to get? to TRY to get you more "into" her. Or she got busy and forgot to respond to her text messages. All girls are like this at one point or another. Get used to it! (:
2007-08-31 03:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by x3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shoulnd't have used the word "lover"
That word can be scary to a person who's not looking for a relationship
2007-08-31 03:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she is playing hard.. text her back sayin that you were jokin and I'm sure that she's text you back.
2007-08-31 03:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Hottie Pro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you younger than she is? if you are maybe she does like you but is kinda hesitant to get involved with a younger guy...that's why she changes her mind...
if you're not younger...she just might be playing around with you...
2007-08-31 03:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by geisha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋