2007-08-30 19:56:08 · 21 answers · asked by kanina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A few days ago, she called me out because over the phone, I refused to help her with her money problem. In fact, I was angry with her attitude while still nursing the wounds from a hurt she had inflicted on me,
Anyway, I agreed to come out, but while I was on my way there, she called again to make it sound as if I was the one asking her out. Oh gosh ...
2007-08-30 20:06:02 · update #1
Drop her and her stuff off at a bus stop.
2007-08-30 20:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by ßαßε 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This girl is just useing you, she treats you like crap and then has the hide to ask you for money tell her to get a job and make her own cash. Again this is a case of disrespect and imaturity, get rid of her and get on with your life. Your gf should not go out to hurt you on purpose and then start asking you for money, she should be a good influence in your life some one who makes you feel good to be around. Not a burden.
2007-08-31 03:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i know how you feel like exactly!!!
my gf went on a date with a guy the day after we started going out i thought this is fuked... then i was like its ova serioulys then she keeped calling me saying she loves me and ****... SO I TOOK HER BAK
big mistake she started taking ex after i told her not to and she keeps saying she will change
i told her to F**K off i suggest u do the same!
your spending money on a complete ***** not a healthy relationship...
2007-08-31 03:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl is hurting the guy by saying things or by doing things its probably to get your attention. if your helping the girl financially and she is still doing this, did it ever occur to you that she didnt care for your money? that she only cares about you? common sense . what is more important to her is you and if you dont talk to her or pay attention to her and you think paying her bills is going to keep her happy when it's you that makes her happy?/
2007-08-31 03:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get rid of her and find someone else. Regardless of what yours losses are in all aspects, stop being a sucker now. Not later, now. Attempts to try and make her see you as you see yourself will almost definately prove fruitless, not to mention allow her to get away with doing more damage.
2007-08-31 03:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by TCSO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, is mean she no more loving u anymore...
Just accept the truth and face it...
In love, is not mean u help her with money then she will be ur gf...
Money can help, but cannot help in love...
If money can buy love, then is not a true love...
Good Luck...
Hope u can founded ur true love soon...
We both cheers, ok?
2007-08-31 03:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does she hurt him ? and the answer is BECAUSE SHE CAN ! I wouldn't give her the satisfaction. Is she cheating ? MOVE ON....let her take care of herself or find some other sucker. I loathe women like this.
2007-08-31 03:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy... move on. treating you like crap will only make you feel bad and struggle financially. It's easier said than done but can guarantee if she is hurting you on purpose and taking your money... she ain't in it for love. sorry!!!!
2007-08-31 03:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her out of your life once & for all... If she needs money, tell her to get it from the social security help.
That is where she should be digging... not digging you & your life
2007-08-31 03:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a mirror in front of her face when she does is so she can see what a little jezebel she has become.
2007-08-31 03:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to handle her at all.
She's NOT into you.
Leave her now and find someone you're more compatible with.
2007-08-31 03:02:33 · answer #11 · answered by scruffycat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋