I really want to get my ex back because I still love him. I left him for another guy, but that guy ended up breaking up with me for someone else and I regret ever leaving my ex. I don't know if it's just because I'm attached to him emotionally {cause he took my virginity} or what, but I still have feelings for him, but I don't know how to tell him... I think he just wants to be single, but I don't know and I miss him being there for me all the time and everything about him. I saw him for the first time today in almost 5 months and now I'm crying because he hasn't changed and he's still the nice, sweet guy I broke up with for a jerk. I REALLY want to get back with him, so if y'all have any suggestions, then please let me know cause I don't know what else to do. =/ Thanks y'all!
Oh, and if you think he hates me, he doesn't because we were holding hands all day and kissing...so don't say that he won't take me back because he hates me because it's obviously not true.
2007-08-30 19:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by sammie_lynn1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, if you where holding hands, and kissing, then just tell him your sorry about the past, and you want him back. Im pretty sure he'll take you back if your already holding hands and kissing...
2007-08-30 19:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start off harsh, and then come around a bit.
So you got the 'grass is greener' on the other side of the fence, realized it was nothing short of weeds, and now you want to bring your lawn mower back to his yard?
He may not hate you, but I bet he is a loooooong way from wanting you back, holding hands and kissing aside, you have t some serious trust issues to overcome.
You have to prove to him, that you know what you want, and that it is him you want, today tomorrow and for a long time. not just till something better comes along.
You have to show him that you can be dependable, and are in it for the long term, not just filling time until another greener pasture comes open.
The feelings you have are most likely guilt, not picking on you, it's natural. I guess it's the fact that you didn't realize what you had until you didn't have it anymore, now you want it back.
Personally, I could be friends with someone like you, but not take you back.
If you really want him back, you owe him an apology and an explanation for starts, then it's time to show you that you can be trusted to not bail and run again.
Best of luck.
2007-08-31 02:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how u feel - it cant be that hard if u are both hitting it off already!
But beware - if u get back together, there maybe major trust issues - he may find it hard to trust you again and fair enough 'you left him for another guy'
Its gonna take alot of hard work to getr things back the way they were but if you really want him back and you can honestly swear you wont hurt this poor guy again then i say Go for it!
Just remember 'what goes around comes around'
2007-08-31 02:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him exactly how you feel. But remember you're the one the who made things the way they are and it's really his choice. Some times people do learn from their mistakes and it sounds like you are being honest about it. Hope it works out for you. Remember though it will take time for him to be able to totally trust you again.
2007-08-31 02:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that he is the guy for you , then just go for it and explain yourself, let him know that you are very sorry for what happened between you and that you have regretted it, just let him know how you really feel...and hey if you guys are already holding hands and kissing then things might just work for out for you
2007-08-31 02:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by sdangel7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes ur company then be along wid him..to begin let it be few minutes then hours maybe..know his feelings..make him comfortable in your company..let him feel he is still cared by u..u can then slowly let him know tat you realise your mistake..and tat u still love him as u loved him previously..promise him u'll be loyal lifelong ..AND TATS ALL..HE'LL BE DEFINITELY URS FOREVER!!!ALL THE BEST
2007-08-31 02:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he still has feelings for you, but honestly, I'm not so sure you deserve him after what you pulled.
2007-08-31 02:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋