I am so sad im cry. i know that i will never find husband if i am not pretty and i am not married yet. i posted pictures of me on beauty&style and they say i am so ugly and they think i am man. and my clothes are bad and no mna will love me.
i always wanted to hurt myself before and now i want to . i so scared. please dont tell me to pray to jesus im not christian. i try not to pray to Her because im not worthy. please somebody help me. im afraid if i get off the computer i will hurt myself. im so ugly and will never have a life.
what do i do?
2007-08-30 16:30:40 · 19 answers · asked by Moonlit Hemlock 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
This is sad to read. A pretty young girl like you talking like this. Take no notice of nasty remarks left on the computer by idiots. Try talking to someone who loves you, someone you trust. I'm sure they will tell you the truth. You are very pretty and nothing like a man.
Good luck and take care! :)
2007-08-30 20:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by *~☺~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not worthy to pray to God either because I am a sinner, just like you. However, God tells us in the Bible that He wants to hear from us sinners because He loves us. He wants to forgive anyone who asks for forgiveness. HE will listen.
Also, it is not just appearance that makes a woman attractive to men. Having a personality that shows interest in many things and people, having a positive outlook and a caring heart go a long way towards making you attractive. I am also thinking that you are probably more attractive in appearance than you think you are.
You are more valuable and worthy of love than you think you are. Hurting yourself will not help anything. It is not your place to punish yourself and even if it were, what would it accomplish?
God does love you, whether you believe that or not. Your feelings do not change that truth.
2007-08-30 16:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Bob T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt yourself. Can you imagine someone putting scratches in the Mona Lisa. I have never met you. You may be very beautiful and you might be somewhat plain. I don't know. I do know that, either way, you are pretty. If you don't think your eyes are pretty than you need to get a new world view. Look at your eyes in the mirror. They are pretty, I promise.
Don't worry about finding a husband. Your time will come and I promise that. He'll be handsome too. Oh - and I'm not just leading you on...I know for a fact that if you always try to do what you know is right, your time will come. I promise.
Don't hurt yourself, please. E-mail me if you still are having trouble. Just click on my name and click on "send E-mail"...
2007-08-30 17:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Chris B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can be very cruel. Don't let negative comments or actions pollute who you are. You are a beautiful person, I am sure of it, why? because you are so sensitive as to what others think. Let this beauty from the inside, surface and project who you are. We are not all blessed with a size 3 or images we see in magazines and t.v.
Take who you are, and be proud to be you. You will create a positive energy that will attract a certain someone. In order to find the person you want to share yourself with, you need to be in social places, attend events, join a club, something that you enjoy doing, whether it is arts, yoga, or learning how to dance. It is easy to give up and let negative people win, don't let them dictate your life or who you are. Be the sunshine in someone's life, not the victim.
2007-08-30 19:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look pretty to me---don't worry about what other people say, just don't listen to them---life is a learning process and you're plenty young enough to still do some growing and learning. Just try thinking of things that make you happy and concentrate on that. Call some professional counselors if you need to get some objective advice. Hurting yourself only reinforces what these people think of you---don't give in to them, at all, ever....find your own inner strength---it's there and you will be amazed on how much you have.
2007-08-30 16:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by paul h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriages are made in Heaven. Worry makes no good except make you cry. Leave certain things for time itself. Stop thinking of physical appearance. After all you are Nineteen not ninety. Do not be sinic. Be confident. Stop spending much time with Computer. Beauty is inner thing. If you are happy at heart it reflects in your eyes. That is beauty. Not the physical bodily measurements etc are counted as beauty. Do not pray god. Pray yourself.
2007-08-30 18:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, the only thing i would say is happy with who you are. By loving others and by picking up hobbies that help you out. I can gurantee you there is always someone for everyone. You cant force anyone, just stay relaxed till Mr Right arrives. All the best and God bless you. Also, whatever you do, dont hurt yourself, life is too precious!
2007-08-30 16:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please do not hurt yourself. It really solves nothing (I know, I used to do it......).
Really you need to find a psychologist to help you - & it has to be one you like & trust.
Finding a husband is not everything, there is so much wonderful stuff in life & so many good reasons to be here, so many things to do & see & learn. Other people are really not all that important.
It really does sound like you need professional help though, sometimes we cannot get the perspective we need from within ourselves & talking to someone else can do that for us,
2007-08-30 16:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by SonoranDesertGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwww don't feel that way who ever called you ugly was jealous of how you look just forget about it i remember when a guy came up to me and asked me why i was so ugly and i just stood there and looked at him while i was crying but the next day it was as if nothing happened and now someone told me that he really lies me so one day they will come to u telling u how beautiful u are
2007-08-30 17:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is to not think about it.
You are pretty in your own way. Don't conform to somebody elses likes / dislikes.
You don't have to pray to any God .. have confidence in yourself ... go to a club, dance club something to take your mind off it.
If not, email me and I can help you .. I do adhoc counselling (for free) to my friends..
2007-08-30 16:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by TrueBlueAqua 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋