He nows but he said this is the way life has to be.
2007-08-30 13:52:34 · 12 answers · asked by babynay186 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
sorry for such the emotional stress? are you two together. are you in the situation to move also? will he take care of the baby once its here? if he is moving because he wants to get away from you and the baby, then this is a serious matter. are you with someone else? will that person take the responsibility for the baby? if i were you, i would make him feel small, and be a single mom, as i have already done, and live my life without him. yes, the baby will suffer somewhat, but if he/she does not know him...then why put him/her through all of that stress? these are some of the things you need to ask yourself. be independant, and try not to rely on such a...holes good luck to you and your new one
2007-08-30 14:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you know where he is then i would get the lawyers involved and make sure he is paying child support, as for contact with your child i would tell him to stay away!
If you dont know where he is i wouldnt bother chasing around trying to find him, just worry about your self and your baby. You dont need a guy to help you raise this child, You can do it on your own and you will be fine! The guy you where with is just a dead beat!
I wish you and your baby all the happiness, you will be fine and you will be a good mother so dont think anything less of your self!
2007-08-30 14:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was what he said to you. I would not try to keep the relationship if I were you.
At some point you'll have to work out something for the baby, he is the father. But as far as the 2 of you go...forget him. Is there more details so we understand a bit better what is going on.
2007-08-30 14:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten916 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on and do what is best for you and your baby. Being a single parent is not easy, but it can be done. Been doing it for 10 years.
One very important thing though, never say anything negative about the sperm donor in-front of your child. Just me, as they get older, they will know and understand who the parent is.
2007-08-30 14:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sapphire 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would file for child support or take whatever legal matters you need to ensure that he will support your child. Even if he isn't around he is still the father and needs to be responsible for the part he played in getting you pregnant.
2007-08-30 14:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Michaela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats fine. let the *** hole go on his merry way... but he can pay child support. whether he likes it or not he created a child. life may be like this for another few months for him, but then he can dish out the hundreds of dollars a month to help support your soon to be new baby. girl dont let him get off easy. hes a jerk. and he needs to man up to his responsibilities.
2007-08-30 14:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by mommy jaycee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer immediately about getting child support. His moving does not mean he doesn't have to support his child!
Good luck, and realize you are better off without this bum!
2007-08-30 13:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by starrystarrynight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you apply for help through Social Services and have his address they will go after him for support, which will first go to reduce what they give you. Other than that, you need a lawyer.
2007-08-30 14:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by EC Expert 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he's an as$hole
sorry
but he is, all i have to say is
talk to a lawyer about child support ASAP,,
good luck
2007-08-30 14:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by [= 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THATS AWFUL. LOOKS LIKE HE BAILED ON YOU AND YOUR BABY. GET HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT.
2007-08-30 14:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by TABBYKAT34 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋