I don't know whats wrong with me but, I've been so sensetive lately. I feel that no one cares for me. I know my dad doesn't but, ever since I met this guy who now hates me for no reason I've felt serious and out of touch. Like I don't fit in with my friends and we're all out cast!! And I know I don't belong anywhere else! I don't belong to the popular group, the jocks, the geeks, the otucasts (which is where i am now), the goths, the insane, or the normal...I just belong nowwhere all of a sudden I'm not funny I'm not hyper I'm out of breathe boring and pushed aside by my best friend. My other friends seem annoying all of a sudden... I don't know what's happening to me. I'm doing better in school thinking clearer but, feel that I am a falirue I don't really get it...somebody please help but don't tell me I need medication or mental help i need actual advice...
2007-08-30 13:38:37 · 8 answers · asked by Shelby B 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i felt that way when i was in school i'm home schooled now. u may have depression i know i do
2007-08-31 13:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you smoke weed or other substances that you shouldnt? Sounds like me when i was in high school. Your head is all confused! It passes. Its called growing up and figuring out who you are as a person and where you fit. Your crowd will change over and over as you grow up. Just because you dont belong to a group of people doesnt mean that you dont belong in society. High school is so hard. Try and be friends with everyone. Treat everyone with respect and you will get the same respect in return or at least you should. You will also expose yourself to new people and maybe become friends with them. Join new clubs and sit with new people at lunch or during classes. Make a point to talk to a new person you would never usually talk to each week so that you making yourself known. Hang in there...and you dont need medication! Your in high school...you just need to get your head clear and figure out where you belong. In time you will!!
2007-08-30 20:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be showing signs of Bi-Polar 2 or depression. I went through the same thing and am still going through it. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone in authority. I would bring this up with my doctor or school counselor, but -- at your age -- I wonder if they'd take you seriously. (sorry, but I had that happen, and I tend to think b/c I was ignored, others might be too.)
I recommend looking at the sites below and seeing if you "fit" in any of them. If you do, then print out the results to take to your doctor. Hopefully he/she will take you seriously.
I hope you find help soon. I started getting problems at your age. If I had gotten help THEN instead of three years ago, I seriously doubt I'd be on disability today for inability to work for anyone (I'm so anxious I can't think when someone is my "boss". It's awful)
Anyway, I wish you luck. (I enclosed an ADHD test, because most problems come in pairs or triplets.)
2007-08-30 20:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Serena 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is an impartial person you can trust and that will be honest and open with you, to talk with. This could be a pastor, councilor, help line, or teacher. The reason I say this is because this is a serious time in your life. It sounds like you are at a major crossroad. There are persons who care about you even if you don't see it now. I know your not a failure and I don't even know you. God Bless.
2007-08-30 21:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by barb p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're growing up. There's nothing wrong with you. You don't need to be in a group or a 'click' with other people. Learn to love yourself for who you are. You have to love yourself or like the person you are before others will be your friend. Don't stress about what other people think. To me, it sounds like you are just growing up and are not wanting to be part of the immaturity that's going on around you. You just can't see that yet. You're falling away from the crowd because you are subconciously realising tha you don't need friends like that and are looking for something more satisfying.
It is tough to go through this, but in the long run you will be happy and more centred with yourself and once that happens, people will be coming to you to befriend you because your confidence in yourself will attract them.
2007-08-30 21:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some counselors have access to personality profiling tools, but I'm not sure how much one would charge for a test or series of tests.
2007-08-30 21:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by night_train_to_memphis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH this is weird cause it says ur name is shelby and so is mine! and i do fell that way sometimes
2007-08-30 20:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to me i will listen to u dogmicjoe@yahoo.com
2007-08-30 21:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋