This guy on utube email me asking 4 my myspace page and I said I don't give it out until I get to know the person I only have people I know on it like my friends from school. So I said no cuz ur utube page says ur 19 am 16 and I don't want to get u in trouble. So he emails me back says he is 17. I get a weird felling from this person he will not leave me alone. My mom said no myspace page or utube but I did it anyway so I can't tell her cuz I don't want to be in trouble what can I do to make him leave me alone. I'm a really nice person I hate being mean he keeps saying this send me ur myspace am 17 not 19
2007-08-30 11:37:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Honestly, I think you probably liked the attention from this guy in the beginning but now it has gotten out of control. You say that you don't like to be mean, but your kindness has the potential to be deadly. This guy does not care about you. If he did he would leave you alone. You really need to get a spine and not worry about getting someone in trouble. I would hate to think that you've put yourself in the position where the old saying, "kill you with kindness" becomes literally true. Please have no further contact with this person. Tell your mom. Remember it's easier to get forgiveness than permission. Best of luck to you
2007-08-30 14:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be somebody as far as who runs myspace or youtube that can put an end to him emailing you. Try looking through your email options to see if there is some way to block him. If you keep ignoring him, then maybe he will go away. I know you might like myspace, but you may need to delete your page in order to get this jerk off your back. Whatever you do, DO NOT give information about yourself to this guy. He may be older than 19.....and a pedophile. Im sure you have seen the Dateline specials about internet predators. And even at 19, the guy only wants one thing....in your pants and nothing else....a one time wonder (Im not trying to be mean). If nothing else, stay off the internet and talk to your friends at school or on the phone and maybe he will get the hint.
Either way, you are in a dangerous situation. Be careful about what photos you have on your myspace page since it can tell alot about where you live (landmarks, house number, etc.). I hope your pictures are not provocative in any way and, in fact, I hope you have no picture at all.
If all else fails, trouble or no trouble, you may have to tell your mom. Hope this helps and good luck.
2007-08-30 18:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a softy. tell him that you don't want to be his friend and to leave you alone. U need to be blunt, not mean, because this guy sounds like nothing but trouble and you recognize that too. As much as it sucks that I'm going to side with your parents I have to say: This is why your mom doesn't want you on myspace.
2007-08-30 18:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by Becka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will probably find out that your mum is very forgiving and could help you. You are best not to respond to this person at all and block his emails if possible. That way he will stop bothering after a while. On no account give him any more information than he already has and I wouldn't be mean either. Just don't respond.
2007-08-30 18:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by dizzzybubble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put yourself into the private status on myspace. Then this guy won't be able to bother you. This is your best resolve. Remember this, What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. Peace, Love and God Bless.
2007-08-30 18:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well there is the obvious answer. Get rid of your youtube and make a new one. You can block people on youtube too. Just block him. You can nicly tell him that you want him to leave you alone. If that doesn't work, yell at him and if he still won't leave you alone threaten to call the police. They can find his IP adress and find him.
2007-08-30 18:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being mean by trying to protect yourself. Block him or can you report him on myspace?
2007-08-30 18:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by MILAYA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
block his e-mails and dont send him anything else. and then listen to your mother. shes only trying to tell you there are alot of pervs out there and being under age, he just may be a perv. he could tell you hes 17 or 19 and really be 40. so be careful.
2007-08-30 18:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by toochins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts!!!
You are under no obligation to make any response to this man.
So.....Do Not...Under any circumstances, even open any mail from him. Put him on your spam list.
Absolutely ignore him.
eventually he'll give-up and go away.
2007-08-30 19:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not being mean by protecting yourself! tell a parent or block him! he may be a pedophile.
2007-08-30 18:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by brokenbutterfly27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋