But I can't bring myself to getting it done. She's a 11 year old great dane and is on her last leg.
2007-08-30 10:29:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
u have to ask urself if u think she is in pain. If u think the pain she is having is greater thatn the pain u will feel at her lose, then u might want to put her out of her suffering. If she's just old and not getting around then u may want to wait and let God take her in his own good time. l had a cat that was about 11 and had kidney problems and we knew she was in pain so i put her down , she just went to sleep and i cried for days, but she wasn't in any pain any more. I had a dog that lived to 12 and she was having a hard time getting around but wasn't in any pain that i could tell, she died in my living room in the night in her sleep , i creied for days.I still miss them both because they were my friends, true friends, but it is a choice only u can make. Good luck and God bless.
2007-08-30 11:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nora G 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
having a dog many times is just like having a child, only there love is unconditional. I think that's what makes owning a pet so special.
My Husband & I have been married 31 yrs and have always had at least 2 dogs and we have got them from the pound or abused homes. all have lived long lifes but the hard part has always been when they get sick and older, and we have to make the trip to the vet to say good by, its the hardest thing I had to do over the years except burying my mother.
Yet I always know I doing whats best for them because I love them and don't want them to be in pain if I can help it.
I think each time I will not get another dog but in a very short time I need the unconditional love again, and off I go to the pounds and rescure centers looking for my little best friend again.
all of us feel for you, and wish you luck in making this choice for you best friend.
2007-08-30 18:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. I would have to agree if there is nothing that can be done for her and if she is in a great deal of pain. I really don't see a question here I guess you are just looking for reassurance that you are doing the right thing. Well rest assured as long as she knows that she has been loved. It is a hard decision and I am sure you are making the right one. Just spend one last night with her and let her sleep with you and love on her and I think that you will feel better about it.
2007-08-30 17:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by BumbleBee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had an old dog a few years ago and after going through many seizures with him, arthiritis, and his grouchy fits. I had to put him down at age 16. I felt really bad and it has taken 2 years to get over it and get another pet.
Euthanasia is a painless procedure and often veterinarians will do it with you not being present. You can come in and say goodbye and then leave your pet in loving hands who will escort them out of life peacefully. I stayed with my pet but I wish that my last moment with him was one where he was alive and happy so I do regret my decision to stay for the injection. It also helped that I had a friend there to hug when he took his last breath.
2007-08-30 17:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by oshunn1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its understandable.
It's not easy losing a pet.
Euthanasia is done with something called euthasol.
What it is..is an opiate overdose so they feel "happy" and calm. They litterally drift off into an endless sleep. The only painful part is the needle which normally does not bother them too much. If only we could all go that way. Take her favorite bed and toy with you so she can have it with her. Pet her and talk to her during the process. Spoil her rotten right now. Give her all of the treats and human food you wouldn't let her have before. Love her as much as possibe. It is hard but you have to make the best decision for her. I'm so sorry.
2007-08-30 17:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by buddhist_20 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just a few months ago I was facing the same situation with my 15 year old pit mix. So long as he was happy and not suffering, I was unable to put him down, despite his developing health issues. Once his arthritis and bad heart made it impossible for him to continue enjoying life (the vet confirmed everything) I knew that the best thing for my beloved pet was for him to be put down. So long as you know your old friend is incurable, don't let her suffer. If you've never seen an animal put to sleep, it may help to know that it is very fast and no more painful than an intravenous sedation.
2007-08-30 17:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain & know exactly how you feel. I am so sorry you & your dog has to go through this.
This past June, I had to make the same decision & it is very hard. I kept putting it off, but as days past she got worse & I could see in her eyes that she was getting tired. The night before I let her go to rest in peace she layed down beside me, gave me kisses & looked straight in my eyes with her big brown beauties. I promised her that night that I would think more of her, than myself, and say our goodbyes tomorrow. She laid there beside me & that was our last night together.
Of course when daylight rolled around I was having second thoughts, but I promised her & I never went back on my word.
See how you are, you have tears coming to my eyes now, because thinking of her & her not being here with me hurts something terrible.
I have no idea how bad off your dog is, but just ask yourself, would you want to be living the life your dog is.
Just remember this would be your last act of love & responsibility to your best friend. If & when you do decide it is time to let go please stay with your dog during her last minutes. You've always been there for her & you still should during that time. Don't let her be alone or with someone else. She'll want you to be there.
Again, I am so sorry you are faced with this decision.
2007-08-30 17:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by ® 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My heart goes out to you. Really! Been there done that and it isn't easy. I agree with the others on here. If she is sick, no quality of life, then you need to make a choice for her. But if she isn't sick, just old, ask your vet. They may lead you right. And I wouldn't put her down just because she is old. Just might be taking her longer to do things. I am sorry that you are going through this.
2007-08-30 17:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your dog. Is there anyone who could go with you to have her put down? Like a friend, for comfort and support? There are animal doctors who can go to your home and put her down. If that would be better for you, check the yellow pages under veterinarians. They list them there.
It's such a difficult thing to have to do, I know. But, you admit that she isn't doing well at all. She will know that you love her and will go to heaven knowing that too. Having her put down is much better for her then letting her suffer any longer.
I hope my advise helps.
2007-08-30 17:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
getting your dog (or any pet) put to sleep is difficult, but if she's not happy in herself or is ill then you need to take her to the vet.
there are a number of services available such as pet graveyards or even pet cremation services. this can help you in the bereavement process and gives you a chance to say a better goodbye.
hope this helps. i had my dog put to sleep a few weeks ago but the knowledge that she wasn't happy made the decision a lot easier.
2007-08-30 17:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by abs 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋