How can I change myself and be a better wife and mother?

Answer 1

what about this question...

how can I make myself happy? by being happy you will be a better wife and mother...

Answer 2

What makes you think you aren't the best wife and mother now? I am a wife and mother and I wouldn't change a thing about myself now, my family loves me no matter what and vice verse, and changing now would be silly, they might not like the change, even if it's a more spiritual or happy change, you can go over board, might just freak them out. I am sure you are a very good wife and mother, or you wouldn't have asked this question.

Answer 3

Read the bible more. As you learn more about the plan God has for you, you'll realize the gifts and talents that He gave you to serve in this world, in both the roles of mother and wife, and child (of God).

Turn your sins over to God, ask him to take away the burden. He'll forgive you for them and forget about them, allowing you to focus more on making your home a better place for your family.

Build relationships. That's what Jesus came to do.

God bless. Email or IM me with any personal struggles you may be facing but are unable to share in such a public forum.

I'm here to help.

Answer 4

Pray and ask the Lord where you fall short. Talk with your family and ask for an honest, brief assessment. Then, ask the Lord what He wants you to change first.

As being part of a body of believers, connect with a woman who has strengths in areas you need help in. God gives us each other for good reason - and it is not just to annoy each other.

The key is to work on what the Lord wants you to work on. Don't think you have to work on many issues at once. Also remember, God has grace for you. You can see where you have blown it and you will probably fall short again. But, His grace is there so you can get it right.

Answer 5

I would suggest you do some study in the Word of God, look up passages about being a Christian Woman, and Mother. If you begin to work toward those goals you will find yourself being fulfilled and those around you will notice it too. I recommend you start with Proverbs 31. In fact let me also encourage you to read Proverbs daily, have you noticed that Proverbs is about wisdom and there are 31 which corresponds to the 31 day month?

Answer 6

first,write down your pros and cons,your good and bad features.then work on eliminating the bad and adding more good to the pro side.praying for help is also a good idea.keep up with your progress and you should see a change if you are sincere.good luck and God bless

Answer 7

You can't change yourself but you can invite Jesus into your life. He will do the rest once you submit to Him. After that inital step, try keeping the last and geratest commandment that He left us with - love your neighbor as you love yourself. If you treat your hubby and babies and love them like you would want to be treated and loved - you will be better than better.

You must seek first the kingdom of God and all of His righteousness and the rest will be added to you. You wil be blessed, your family will be blessed and your relationship will be blessed.

Answer 8

First, what exactly would you like to change? It may be a personal question, but there's not much to go on.

Answer 9

First you need to find out why you want to change. what is it that you dont do good, or want to do better. Come back when you know that.

Answer 10

Just follow Jesus Christ. He will make you a better wife and mother.