I had a sexual dream about a semi-close friend?

Question

In this dream she gave me head and I kept telling her no, and she kept wanting sex but I said no, because I liked this other girl and didnt want to mess with any other girls. Why cant my sexual dreams be about the girl I like? lol

Answer 1

It can mean 2 things. It means that you are afraid of getting together with an other chick before you have a chance to date the chick you like. The reason your friend is in it, is because you are close to her (because she's your friend, not because you are in love with her. Except if you know otherwise). It's okay... Most the time it's hard to dream about the girl that you like just because you don't know her enough. In the case you don't know the person you want, your brain transfers the feeling to another person you really do know.

The second reason can be that your brain needs to process something to do with this need to get the chick and if you need to process something about your friend. Your brain gets confused, and mixes the two issues. This sounds more like it..

Answer 2

Dreams are often your subconscious trying to resolve unsettled problems or anxieties you might be facing. Think of it as your brain working overtime. If I were you, I would just use the dream to clarify your conscious decisions. If the thought of being with another girl bothered you, you are probably right to avoid messing around with anyone else.

As for choosing who you dream about: good luck. I wish I could do that myself. I've had some doozies over the years.

Answer 3

Trying not to dream of someone is the best way to make yourself dream of them. Don't sweet it , it's natural.

Answer 4

You know you wanted it from your friend!

Answer 5

unconsiously, you know you like them too