Just curios to see if I was the only one with a fear while prego.
2007-08-30 08:05:35 · 56 answers · asked by mother of twin girls 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
the only fear I had was my girls would come out conjoined......
2007-08-30 08:14:03 · update #1
oh the whole I would have to have a c-section freaked me out too. But thank God I didn't have to!
2007-08-30 08:14:46 · update #2
After reading all this everyone pretty much has the same fears when they were pregnant!! Our fears come and go but its interesting to see how many of us all share the same things. Thank you to everyone who answered!! I have beautiful twin girls that are 7month and glad to hear everyone has happy healthy babies!!!!
2007-08-30 08:29:38 · update #3
losing the baby. I had a stillbirth at 19 weeks, and it took almost 2 yrs for me to concieve again. I'm 34 weks now, and I still worry about losing him.
2007-08-30 08:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by parental unit 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
My worse fear when I was pregnant was driving around with my belly i was so paranoid that I would always check to make sure that the person behind me kept their distance or that they were slowing down as I approached a red light. I tried to keep a positive attitude but I couldnt help it when it was time for me to get behind that wheel. I would also freak out when I wouldnt feel her move, I would run to the kitchen eat ice cream or drink orange juice to get her moving! Which worked everytime, and it would put me at ease, mmmmm.... Oh yea I was also scared of falling or bumping my belly, and of course very scared and terrified of miscarrying, since I had previously miscarried 5months before I got pregnant with this baby. Thank God everything went great last week when I delivered her it was such a beautiful experience, and I still cant believe how strong us women are! I had her 100% natural, no epidural! I would definately do it all over again!
2007-08-30 08:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Juliet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At 12 weeks I started bleeding and I was worried I may be losing my baby it scared me. I went to emergency room to find out that she was ok and that it is normal to bleed sometimes while pregnant. Think God because I would not know what I would have done without my precious angel. Then I was worried after I had her she would have problems like talking and walking so far no problems think God! The reason why I was worried was with my fiancée pervious wife and their kids had problems. My fiancée was happy that our daughter turned at fine so far, he was more worried about her walking. Well she is 19 months old and into everything and runs to get away from us. Think You God for no problems...
Every momma has something to worry about; if there was a momma that was not worried we have a problem. It is a natural instinct that you get when you become pregnant. Once you become a momma you will find out what love is all about and life is worth living for. You become this momma that is very over protected of your child or children and that is a good thing!
2007-08-30 08:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Country_Gal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I was pregnant with my son and I was 21yrs old and I went to the doctor for an ultra sound. Well when the results got back the doctor told me that something looked a little abnormal. I think it was one of the tubes to the kidneys was a little larger than normal and that could indicate down syndrome. He wanted to schedule an amnio just to be on the safe side. Well this was my first pregnancy and I was so young that I cried for days. The amnio came back fine and he said that the baby was healthy (and a boy) but they scared me half to death. I just kept worrying that my child was going to be born with down syndrome. They even made me go to genetics counseling in case it was DS and I was thinking of terminating the pregnancy. Which I would never do. So needless to say I was so scared my whole pregnancy that something was genetically wrong with him. Today, he is a perfectly normal handsome 3 yr old. Those doctors can really scare you. But I guess they have to cover their a** in case something was wrong and they didn't detect it soon enough.
2007-08-30 08:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by hazeleyes1279 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had many fears when I was pregnant. I got pregnant at 15 with twin girls! I was scared that I would not be a good mother. I had a fear that my girls would not come out healthy or would die at birth. I was scared of the pain. And my last fear is kind of stupid but I was scared that I would have ugly children, actually had nightmares about it.
2007-08-30 08:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been pregnant (And thankfully, because I'm way too young) but I'm guesing my worst fears would be that I would have a last minute miscarrige or my baby wouldn't come out healthy or that I would need a c section. Last of all, the pain. Owwi! Now everyone knows why I will adopt when I get older.
2007-08-30 08:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by CreativeChick8 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am pregnant now, and one of my fears has already come true (congenital heart defect discovered in the baby), but we know how we are going to deal with it after the baby is born, and am very calm now. I suppose at first I was worried about miscarriage, and then I was worried about going into labor at work (still a little worried about this), but for now, I feel everything will work out.
2007-08-30 08:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Piaz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My son's heartbeat was irregular the last couple months so that was a huge fear of mine, he's a 4 month old very healthy strong baby now though :)
Other than that I was worried when he didn't move for a couple of hours, used to poke belly to check on him, lol, poor thing trying to take a nap and there goes mama poking again
Have a good day/night
2007-08-30 08:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by CC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone has a fear or a dream of something bad will happen while ur pregnant. with 1st pregnancy i had miscarried twins so my 2nd the dr was scared enough for me... but i kept having a strange dream of someone killing a baby in a crib. with my 3rd preg. i had the a dream every nite in my last 2 months of my baby being born hearing him cry then dr put him on my belly i would look and he was dead.... i made my hubby promise he wouldnt let the dr give me the baby right after birth. dr tried i freaked out... hubby had to tell dr all about the dream and dr said then its very normal
2007-08-30 08:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah falling over or down the stairs! Ever since I found out I was pregnant I think twice before going down the stairs and am extra careful.
Also loosing my husband is a big worry he is off on alot of business trips all over the world at the moment. I keep worrying he might get hurt too. I think being so hormonal makes the worry worse, he thinks Im over reacting though.
2007-08-30 08:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. I have worried so much since I found out I was pregnant. I'm just worried about not having a healthy baby or complications during pregnancy.
17 weeks and 4 days!!
2007-08-30 08:14:50 · answer #11 · answered by ericksmommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋