well she cant seem to communicate when theres an argument and therefore isolates me for weeks on end and then she might ring me out of the blue crying to come back to her but even then she covers up the reasons of her really bad behaviour and doesnt seem interested in the argument and therefore nothing resolved. she seems to ***** about everyone and anything and now im realising she could have been bitching about me behind my back too. she has only 1 friend and shes not even talking to her either. right now were in an off period as her father has died recently and she told her brother really bad lies about me at the funeral sending him into a rage so much i was threatened with a pitch fork and made to drive home a long way with drink inside me as i couldnt leave the care there for fear it would be smashed up every thing seems twisted and nothing real. the only people shes with right now is her brother and sister who she tires of also its a constant battle for her to keep peopl amiright
2007-08-30 07:19:29 · 7 answers · asked by ciaran 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
That is not a narcissist. A narcissist is a person who is so involved in themselves that they would never think of asking how you were doing,just I..I..I, or me..me..me.. their needs and wants,their comfort and forget yours.She sounds very immature and maybe a little antisocial.Sociopath springs to mind.
2007-08-30 07:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by lonepinesusan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best for you to stay away from her and her family. Leave her to the professionals. If she contacts you again, maybe you should tell her that your safety is more important to you than a relationship with her.Would you want to end up marrying her and having to live with this (and her brother) the rest of your life?
2007-08-30 07:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Deenie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you want to put up with this type of garbage swallow your pride as a man and beg her forgiveness and tell her you will be her little slave boy forever. If you want to be happy look around there are LOTS of wonderful women that will make you happy, work as your partner in life, and be a joy to have around.
2007-08-30 07:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is a narcissist expects their partner to be perfect.
2014-10-15 18:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by That Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even read your lengthy explanation......if she is your EX girlfriend, why she is who she is, is no longer your concern or any of your business. Move on.
2007-08-30 07:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Narcissism is not close to anything you described! "Self-admiration: excessive self-admiration and self-centeredness."
2007-08-30 07:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by tulane2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your ex-girlfriend, what do you care about what she is or is not?
2007-08-30 07:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋