I'm in 10th grade and I just moved to a new school district. School doesn't start until the 6th of September, but since I do X-Country I have to go to practice which started on the 13th of August. Anyway our X-Country practices in the track most of the time. On the other side of the track the cheerleaders practice there. Well when we usaully run around on the track we pass by them everytime. There is this one girl that I think I have a crush on, but I don't know how to start anything. No one on the X-Country team knows who she is except for that shes in 9th grade. I want to try and get something started before school starts, because once it does I won't have a chance (9th grade is a seperate building for 10-12).
I want to go up to her and just start talking, but that kind of seems weird but I don't know any other way.
Would you be creeped out or scared if you were in that girls situation.
And anyone have any other ideas to start??
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2007-08-30 05:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm also kind of afriad of rejection is because she is out of my league, but not by far. So it kind of might be akward for her because I might not be her "type" /or "kind".
2007-08-30 05:41:47 · update #1
start off by asking do you want to have sex with me?
2007-08-30 05:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by JUAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem. You never know how other people feel until you talk to them and get to know them. It would be easiest if you could figure out someone she knows and use them as a starting point. Given what you've said, I think you should just start with a smile. She may be shy, so don't take it as rejection if at first she doesn't smile back. Don't crowd her or come on too strong, that might scare her. Simply make eye contact and smile. If you do this on a few occasions, next try simply saying hi at some point. See if she responds and go from there. You could try saying something like are you new to school?, or whatever seems appropriate. If you're serious about getting to know her you'll have to get her attention first and then go from there. Girls LOVE compliments. You can always find something nice to say... you'll NEVER go wrong with saying something nice. Good luck, you sound like a caring guy. Remember, the first thing on a girls list is how NICE a guy is, not how good he looks.
2007-08-30 05:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by spiffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her being "out of your league". As a guy, you will be rejected many times, however, the important thing to remember is this: If you don't try you cannot succeed. Just go up to her and say something like; "Hi, I would like to get to know you". The worst that can happen is she will say "No". On the other hand, she may say "OK". To use a sports analogy; Babe Ruth was the greatest home run hitter of all time and the reason was because every time he went to the plate, he tried to hit a home run, nothing else. The moral is: The more you try, the easier it will get and the more you will succeed. Good Luck
2007-08-30 05:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl in 10th grade, I wouldn't be freaked out, but then again I'm a very outgoing person, she's a cheerleader so I'm assuming she's not the shyest person in the bunch, don't be creepy about it though, just smile at her when she looks at you and if she smiles back talk to her, smiling is the best way to flirt when you haven't talked to someone yet, and it's cute =D
2007-08-30 05:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok listen just look for a girl you would like to talk to but dont make it seem like you want to hit on her. Then talk to her about her intrest. Then at the end of the conversation ask her on a date. Dont worry about rejection it will happen in life.
2007-08-30 05:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if you know anyone who knows her and they can see if she may be interested in you.If no one knows her just go up to her and tell her you are new in town and would like to know if she will go have a soft drink with you somewhere and show you around town.you have to start somewhere.If she gives you the cold shoulder don't fret as she wasn't the right one after all and there are plenty of chicks out there .Hold your head high no matter what.
2007-08-30 05:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by mamaw2305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and try not to show off--girls pick up on un-naturalness. Try to ask questions that require explanations, rather than yes/no answers.
Hope this helps. Best of luck to you and your new school year. Remember, every new day presents new opportunities.
2007-08-30 05:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by rc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel you could say hi then comment on how she looks or say she has nice perfume dont keep looking at the floor when you talk to her dont stutter if she seems interested in you (if she laughs at your jokes looks in your eyes etc) ask her if she wants to go out some time if she says yes give her your number and tel her to call you if she doenst means she aint interested and move on dont go beging to her and dont say why didnt you cal cuz she might think your posesive good luck hunx x x
2007-08-30 05:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by miss heartbreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her...be yourself when you're around her...just show her how you really are....if she reacts in a different way then there's no point with her..but you said that you THINK you like her but you dont KNOW if you do....
2007-08-30 05:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by T0NG4N GiRL =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fall in front of her. make her feel sorry for you. then say, just kidding, laugh, and run on. turn around and wink after you run. i'd go after you if you did that to me. :P
2007-08-30 05:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by love u like a fat kid loves cake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋