For the last couple of weeks i have been having some weird erotic type dreams but my mom are in them, she is naked, im touching her at times, she is on top of me...they're just weird dreams, i know i shouldnt be intimate with her in my dreams, bc its wrong, but i just want to know why i am having this type of dreams, any dream interpretation of it ?
2007-08-30 04:16:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Other details: i am 27 years old, my mom is divorced from my dad, has been living with this other man she cheated with, she is a sexual person, also i havent had sex in 3 years, i am definately sexually repressed....my life sucks !
2007-08-30 04:30:33 · update #1
First, it is just a dream.
Second, repetition in dreams CAN (but also might not) indicate either (1) unresolved issues, hence you play them again to take another shot at resolving something, or (2) some aspect is enjoyable.
My question to you, is are you viewing your mother as an outsider, as someone else who is experiencing the woman that is your mother? If the character you play in your dream is searching for that kind of involvment with a woman, and the woman pictured in the scene is your mother, then that may be part of your repression. You may be playing an ethical game, mentally testing out your moral system. You may be assessing or similarly checking out, or visually commenting on, how your mother checks out in that moral system. The issue might be that your mother fails and your resistence was that you didn't (although came close, no doubt), else you wouldn't find the setting uncomfortable.
Going back to the first scenario, it reminds me of a friend (and no it wasn't me) who did an online dating search, put in his desired criteria, and his mother popped up on the list! He didn't realize that she was searching. He didn't realize that he really wanted a woman like dear old mom.
2007-08-30 05:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I really don't know, but let's see what I can do for you. Im just brainstorming, so please do not take offense.
Possibilities:
#1- you have no grlz in your life, and your mom is the only familiar feminine person in your life right now, so you are dreaming like this because you would be having these dreams anyway, but because you have no girlfriend of your own, your mom is the dream substitute.
#2- You think your mom is hot
#3- If you do have a girl in your life, she does not appeal to you, and it would probably benifit both of you to end the relationship soon, but please be kind to her if you do and don't make it sound like you are blaming her at all. Take full blame, and she will get over it much faster, and you will know the full truth of the matter, so your feelings wont get hurt.
1 and 3 are obviosly the most likely. I don't think that this is just a random dream, because you said that you have had it a few times, not just once. Your just dreaming, and you can't control what you dream about, so don't feel bad for having these dreams. Trust me , I've had some pretty bizzaire dreams before as well.
I hope this helps you, and again, don't get offended, I was just brainstorming.
2007-08-30 04:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Llamacat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor girl, but relax. It isn't your mom, stop worrying about it. You are normal and there aren't any shouldn'ts in the dream world, as opposed to reality, ok?
Your mom could represent the sappho side of yourself that all women possess, she is just handy for your unconscious.
We dream in symbols. they represent our hidden thoughts that we had during the day, maybe we weren't even aware of.
Men have dreams of having sex with men and would never think of it in reality.
But it's there, nothing to fear and you will be fine. Espercially with your honesty. You are a very secure person.
You have a great mom.
2007-08-30 04:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by wpepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'I know I shouln't be intimate with her in my dreams...'
Why not? They are dreams. You can do whatever you want in your dreams. Most boys have thoughts like this about thier mother as they grow up. It's perfectly natural. Stop worrying about it. It just means that you are coming to terms with the fact that your mother is a sexually active adult. Younger children don't recognize this fact because sex is so taboo in our society. As you get older, and the realization hits you, your mind readjusts its perception of the people close to you.
2007-08-30 04:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the mummy element only means which you have a powerful connection on your mom. Has no longer something to do with sexual want for her. loss of life shows substitute on your life. So no concerns, its hassle-unfastened and does not advise you're a sicko.
2016-10-03 10:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your own piece of mind, I would suggest that you investigate the METAPHOR that the dream represents rather than the visual images and the literal interpretation of the dream itself.
2007-08-30 04:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, don't stress about it. Before you go to bed, just try to think of some other hot chick and it will eventually stop/
2007-08-30 04:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like the answer above
maybe she's having the same dream as you afterall ^^
but well, it shows you DO LOVE your mom alot
2007-08-30 04:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by problematic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possible reasons:
1. your ideal girl is someone who has the qualities of your mom
2. you miss your mom very much
2007-08-30 04:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by math 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't take it too seriously, it's just a dream
2007-08-30 04:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋