I Think It's Not Fair That Men Get Off Easily When Women have alot to bare?

Question

Women have to worry about not being raped, abused, and used, we have to go 9 months carrying a child that may not even make it while we suffer sideaffects of your bust sizes shrinking, our hips get wider, we get stretch marks, we suffer sickness such as in vomiting all the freaken time, then have our monthly cycles that we are forced to deal with for the rest of our lives until we're like late in our 40's suffering from horrible cramps then we have manopause and breast cancer, and the sex hurts the women while guys just have their sick fantasy pleasure all day, men treat us like sex toys, expect us to be home and have dinner ready when they come home, we dont have much rights, we're nothing but baby machines to some men.

Men just get to lie around being all relax, they dont have to worry about nothing, they always get what they want, i think its not fair, we are taken for granted and men dont care at all!!!

i am not with anybody geez!! im a single!!! SINGLE!!

Correction: worried about getting raped!

Answer 1

your wrong,in our on way we do care,my wife says i don't tell her i love her enough but i do love her very much she is my best Friend,i just have a hard time saying it because that is the way i was raised not once can i remember being told that i was loved when i was little,that is why i try and make everyday a good day and i hope you will try that to,women do go through a lot but we men do care i promise

Answer 2

Men do care. Just like a bunch of apples there is always a bad one. What women don't realize is that sometimes we expect too much from our men. They are not mind readers and are not born experts on how to have a nice relationship, family life and a great career. There are some men that are just dogs. Low lifes that couldn't care less about the kids they make or the hearts they break. You know what the sad part is? THERE ARE WOMAN OUT THERE THAT ALLOW MEN TO DO THAT TO THEM!! Being a woman is a beautiful thing sure we have hard times and we go through things that men never will. That doesn't mean they don't understand. I have seen men that are stronger than a woman and have been through things a woman couldn't begin to deal with. In the end we are all human and we all make mistakes. To say men don't care is not fair, if anything I have seen women young and old that truly do not care about anything, not even their children. Women are no better than men, we are equal and it is high time that women take responsibility for dating the losers that they do, standing up for their own rights and just accepting that you will have a period every month until menopause. In terms of health, men worry about cancer to ya know. Ever heard or prosate cancer?

Answer 3

Wow...somebody must have really burned you BAD! I'm SO sorry that you feel like that. My husband is a jerk sometimes, but he's never had unrealistic expectations and even though I stay home, he knows I work hard taking care of our son and doesn't expect dinner on the table, even though he's in training for the Air Force and works very hard. I try to make dinner because I WANT to...not out of obligation. Women are the only ones that can stop themselves from being objectified. And women can choose not to have children, though that's one reason we were put here and after having a baby, it is the greatest thing I could ever have hoped to accomplish. My husband is an active participant in caring for our child and expects me to take time away when and if I need it. We're far from in a perfect relationship, but it's give and take and compromise. If you don't have a guy like that, you should find one that treats you right.

As for the physical aspects of being a woman, men deal with stuff too. They can have prostate problems, men can be raped and abused, they can actually have breast cancer, too. They also have to deal with US during pregnancy. If you're being mistreated by a guy and if you are pregnant, why have a baby with him...esp. since it sounds like you don't want the unpleasant with the pleasant? Well, now I've written a book and I apologize, but it sounds like sour grapes and if you're pregnant, you should seek some counseling before the baby comes so you don't resent the innocent one. Good luck to you and you ALWAYS have choices.

Answer 4

I'm not too sure what kind of men you've been exposed to, but trust me, they aren't all like that. In fact, I would say that the majority of men aren't like that at all. I hope you someday find a man that proves there are kind, gentle, smart, sensitive men in the world. Either that or that you realize being a woman isn't what you just described. I don't fear being raped, abused or used because I'd never let myself get into that situation to begin with. If a man ever DID put his hands on me without my consent, you better believe he'd have to fight for his life! I LOVED carrying my children for 9 months despite the "side affects". I'm a strong woman that doesn't NEED a man in her life at all. Luckily, though, I found a great one that I'll spend the rest of my life with.

Answer 5

While I think this may be true some of the time, it isn't true most of the time. While my best friend's husband just left her with three kids so he could be with a younger model, my other friend's husband works one full and two part time jobs because she wants to stay at home with their children. He sleeps in two hour shifts and only gets a 6 hour shift on friday and saturday night. The rest of the time he's either heading to, at or heading home from work. There are also a lot of men that suffer in their own private ways. They have impotence and hair loss, they have man-boobs and buddha bellies, they have weight issues and career concerns. I don't think anyone has a free ride.

Answer 6

It is a 50/50 chance of you being a girl or a boy. God choose you to be on this earth as a girl for a reason and the whole complaining that your guy gets to come home and just lie around and relax and do nothing around the house. Your fault. Make him do something. My husband don't get to just sit down and relax. He helps with making dinner and doing dishes, giving kids bath, household chores, taking out trash, yard work. Plus while I was pregnant he was the one that would give me a back rub and when I gave birth and was in pain you should have seen the look in his eyes when he said he wished he could take all the pain or trade places with me. So if you man loves you then he would do more for you.

Answer 7

Poor you. You've got the wrong man. Personally, I have a great man, not perfect, but he helps out with the house and the kids. And the sex is great for both of us. I guess I'm just lucky. I don't really get cramps and I loved being pregnant. I don't think all women have it as bad as you describe things.

You're single? With your attitude I can see why.

Answer 8

Is it just me, or are you blaming men for things like your menstrual cycle and pregnancy? Life isn't fair, and men have plenty of things to deal with that women wouldn't understand either. Both men and women have to deal with the burdens that are associated with their gender so perhaps you should stop generalising and direct your frustration at the particular person you have an issue with, rather than all men.

Answer 9

Have you checked the average life expectancy rates for men and women? Who lives longer?!!!

If you don't like being a woman you can always pay for a sex change.

Answer 10

Sounds like you just HAD a loser of a man.

Mine works his butt off all day so I can stay home with the kids.

Men do get raped, and they CAN get breast cancer too..... and prostate cancer (which woman DONT get).

If sex hurts for you .... get that checked out. It doesnt hurt for me, it feels goooood! If you're being treated like a sex toy, it's your fault for BEING a sex toy.

"our monthly cycles that we are forced to deal with for the rest of our lives until we're like late in our 40's "

^^ok, that was just an oxymoron.^^ You only plan on living till you're 40?

Men can say the same thing about women: "they get treated like princess. we pay for everything! we hold doors open. they get attention, hoots and hollars. and during sex, they just get to lie there. they get pampered with jewelery ... For protection, we have to wear a rubber that takes away a lot of feeling .... women just have to take a pill or get a shot .....etc, etc"
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