My guy friend and I are really close. We talk about our old relationships, crushes, hurts, and fears and last night we even talked about preference in the other gender and sex. Does this mean we're more than friends? I feel we can talk about anything with each other.
2007-08-30 02:57:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This happened to me and it eventually became more than that... we were both really attracted to each other. Best friends can become great lovers!!! Just take it slow.
Just know, that if you do go through with it...there is a chance it may not last and then the previous relationship situation as friends may never be the same again. I know, old news!
2007-08-30 03:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope...could be if you wanted it to, but in most cases, it is always good to have a close friend(s) of the opposite sex. You never know if it will lead to something more or benefits or just someone you love as a brother. No matter what, you might consider chatting with him about it at some point. There are so many forms of love in the world...Seems like you have found some to give and some to take. Everyone should be so lucky!
To put it bluntly, I have had many very close relationships with several women I never "hooked up with". I mean to the point (no I am not gay) they would walk around undressed in front of me or even ask what I thought about their bodies...nothing ever intended and we had those boundaries set., Sure, it turned me on a bit, but the friendship was way more important than screwing it up. It all came down to the fact that each one knew they could trust me.
2007-08-30 03:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by NY PTK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, the line between friend and lover isn't definite. there's a lot of gray area. Are you both single? Is there a reason you've never persued him in that way? That said...you shouldn't feel pressured to go all the way with him. There's absolutely no reason that a guy and a girl can't be "just" close friends on that level. Just get ready for the teasing from your friends.
2007-08-30 03:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by curvycriminal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ive too been in that situation and one can only look for love in all the wrong place but when its true love it tends to be right in front of your face sometimes we as human biengs tend not to see it or take it for what its worth. One thing we as people look at is our surrondings and with that in mind what are your surrondings, what makes you happy, sometimes chances are those we need to take or they pass us by. If you can see it for what its worth then why not, review your surrondings and if the ball is in your court( meaning your surrondings are something that have pluses) I say take it. All good relationships start like that but some choose not to see it for fear of loosing the good friend we always wanted, or have. My best friend aka my wife started the same way and we now have 2 beautiful kids with one on the way. I saw my life and surrondings for what they were worth and now its 3 years later and we still live our life and choose not to let our life live us.
Good Luck and the best wishes from me and the wife.
2007-08-30 03:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could well be. I was mates with my fella before we got together and if your talking so openly then defo. You may talk to your girl mates about things like that but to be able to talk openly with him and for him to talk back there is definatley something there. Talk you may be shy or not want to ruin your relationship as friends but its the only way to find out thats what happened with me and I thought I didn't stand a chance now we've moved in and been together 2 years. Go for it and good luck
2007-08-30 03:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not necessarily mean that you are more than friends, but it could. This is always one of those hard to read situations for people of any age. It seems that you have feelings for him, but it does not automatically mean that he does for you. He might very well think of you that way, but you might want to tread carefully for now. There comes a point where you may have to decide, assuming he does not make his intentions real clear to you; whether you want to risk the great friendship that you have for the chance of something more. I think you ought to play it coy for a while, and try to read his actions and words to know what his true intentions are. Good luck!
2007-08-30 03:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by Andy Jones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may mean that you guys could be more then just friends so just take it slow let him make all the moves some guys like to chase the women but by the sound of thing its going good so just let it happen
2007-08-30 03:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by C.S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now I'd say your still just friends. but it sounds like there is a good chance it could develop into "more than friends"
Actually this is the best way to start a relationship, a strong friendship will hold a relationship together much much better than just physical attraction.
2007-08-30 03:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few female friends that I talk about everything with including taboo subjects. It doesn't mean that I am interested in them as more then friends. They are just some of my closest friends that I feel I can share anything with.
2007-08-30 03:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by labken1817 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a few guy friends like that. No you arent more than friends, you are just close friends. There is not necessarily any attraction between the two of you.
2007-08-30 03:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by itskungfu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋