long sad love story of mine(reposted) need more oppinion...?

Question

Read it if you have time.....currently happens to me >.<
too long..i posted on the blog http://miserablehope.blogspot.com/
then post your opinion please...thanks

pls bear with me..the post is so long so that to judge whether it is worth saving this relationship...

Answer 1

u couldhave resumed it no need to write she is love of my life on and on...i did not read it all....life continues u did ur best an its time to move on get gf dont stay stuck on no one it is not healthy

Answer 2

hey there, don't lose hope. If you're relationship is worth saving, then hold on to that thought. But this problem won't be solved by sulking in your corner and maybe simply thinking and thinking about it. You already know this but you really have to do something, make the initiative.

If your conversations are getting lesser and lesser, then find ways on how to keep those conversations going or becoming interesting again (you can find loads of ebook from the net on how to improve conversation skills, or even what questions to ask your mate during your conversations).

If you feel like she's becoming more distant, then go out of your way to do something that'll make her close to you again.

If you feel like she's starting to become bored with her relationship with you then find some new interesting things to show her, give her, or say to her...

Judging from your post, I really think you love this girl. Go rescue your relationship with her! Good luck!

Answer 3

Ride out the hardest times in your life. She loves you. She is lonely and being apart is NOT easy. That was the sweetest thing I have ever read on Y!A. Have faith in your happiness. Pray that she has not given up completely in her heart of hearts. I believe she may have done some things that she did not tell you about that would hurt you if you knew. She feels like she doesn't deserve you anymore because of what she's done. Just wait one more month and you can see her face to face, and then you can see where life will take you. Rekindle that flame, don't let it go out! Don't give up, she needs you to love her now more than ever. You will have a lot of work to do when she gets back but if she is doing what I think she's doing you just need to be her prince charming and come to her rescue. When she can be in your arms again, then you need to tell her you love her and you never stopped.

Answer 4

Hi

I read the story. It is sad but it is also typical of today's times. Everyone uses each other when they need someone and dump them when they get bored. It is cruel but it is direct. Personally, I feel the bird hass flown and no amount of emotions you shower upon her will bring her back. I am saying this from personal experience. The only person who cares for your emotions is you. Your emotions are expensive and ensure you do not waste them on someone who no longer cares for you. I know it is easier said than done.

You have my best wishes. May God give you all the strength you need to come out of this breakup. Remember you are a good caring person. Loss was her NOT yours...

Answer 5

Well, I read your blog and I must say you are indeed a very loving, kind and special man. You remind me of my fiance'.

This girl may or may not come back to you, I really do not know..what I do know is this:

Let go of her. Stop being there for her, do not post anything that confesses your love for her, let her MISS you and MISS the security you give her, this very well may wake her up.
When we remain vigilant for someone it is easy for them to carry on without us, because essentially, we are still there for them and they know this. What wakes people up is the thought the person we rely on most is gone, possibly loving someone else they way they loved us, and that can hurt one enough to wake them up.

I suggest you begin dating, if only for some companionship yourself, you need that and it help you to occupy your time.
Perhaps even help you to find someone who is as dedicated and loyal as you are.

Bless you and all the very best to you, it's people like you who deserve it.

Answer 6

You are to demanding, and need to let go. I feel like you where smothering her and not letting her be herself. Now that she is away from you she is descovering who she really is. You need to concentrate on your school work and get through that and move on with your life. You can feel sorry for your self or you can enjoy your life and try to meet someone new. Everyone has a first love, but usually it doesn't last.

Answer 7

Please, be strong, give it a chance. Maybe she is soo insecure that she needed the woman for comfort. She loves you. The other girl was her safety net. gl in love. Have faith in God.