that all the men i ever meet want a sex only relationship when i want more, im only 19 but never had a proper relationship and cant find a man who wants one
2007-08-30 01:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it isnt men my own age that im going with, they are between 25 and 35
2007-08-30 01:48:37 · update #1
keep searching, hun. They are out there. Trust me. And if the guy wants sex straight away, keep it to yourself. It'll mean a hell of a lot more to the right guy when you find him.
Good luck
2007-08-30 01:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Peggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same as you at 19, and ended up being very cynical about men by the time I was 22-23, only to meet a lovely man when I was 25; I'm now 39 and we're still together and very happy.
Be patient, and stick to your guns. Don't accept less than you feel you're worth.
2007-08-30 01:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things have not changed then??
Some guys think exactly the same, my sons for example when they go out they tend to meet girls who are after sex, drinks bought all night, paying into a club or worst still to fight over them. It takes time patience and depends where you go and meet and how you deliver yourself.
I found my second hubby by chance my first comments were that he was shorter than me and talked funny. He may still be these things but he is the love of my life I met him when i was just reaching 40 and can now swear life begins at 40 even though this is a long way of for you yet love.....
Enjoy your life many a man takes a long time to suddenly understand his brain is in his head and not his pants
Pubs and clubs are not usually the best places to meet due to being drink related.
2007-08-30 01:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men between 25 and 35 going out with a 19yr old prob wont want anything serious as they are generally not looking for love they are looking for a way to hold onto their youth. Hence the saying 'your only as old as the woman you feel'
2007-08-30 03:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you just haven't met the right man yet. you seem to be attracting a certain type of man, why don't you stop looking for Mr right and concentrate on going out and having fun, when the time is right for you , you will find your special man who will want you for more than your body, if your looking for something you never find it. your still young and there is plenty of time yet for you to find Mr right, live your life to the full and you will get what you desire.
2007-08-30 01:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by fruitcake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well blokes our age,im 18,theyre very immature still and thinking about whats in between the legs most of the time,go for older guys,in 20s,they mite want to commite more
2007-08-30 01:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends in what situation your meeting them
and what the relationship is based on?
Im in that age group and dont go looking just for sex
based relationships.......maybe thats why im still single! lol
2007-08-30 02:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because maybe they think your only good in bed. Dont go with men who only wants sex with you all the time!
Find somebody who likes you inside and out and respecs you and do as you say
good luck
2007-08-30 02:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you keep hanging out at that Man-S l u t bar.
2007-08-30 01:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a morality keeping man
2007-08-30 01:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋