iam loving a girl who is 2yrs elder to me......is it correct to love ???? even she loves me a lott.....iam not able 2 live without her .... we are true...our love is true.....even she wants me n loves me a lot....but the society says that we shld'nt love elder people.....what should i do now????? plzzzz plzzz help us..........can i marry her.......?????me doin btech 2nd year and she completed btech........will she wait for me??????
does our father n hers father agree for our marriage???????
iam in big dialoma.........plzzzzzzzzzzz any one's there to help me?????????
2007-08-29 23:24:26 · 18 answers · asked by arvind k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey listen dont panic...first of all u both decide wat u two wanna do...then comes parents n society...u both shud b clear in ur head that age wont matter to u both in future..no matter wat u both wont repent abt this decision
well brother, age doesn't matter if u truly luv her...these all rules are set by us...wats society gonna do with all this...its ur life n u have all the right on earth to do watever u want to do with it........its all abt luv n adjustments n of course trust thats required in ne relation especially husband n wife's relation....if u both r comfortable n firm abt getting married then try to convince both of ur parents
dont b so confused..u need to b confident n this confidence wud win ur girl's parents
it will show how deeply u luv her n want her into ur life n they cant get ne gud husband for her than u
so brother chill n b confident...rest all is in GOD's hands ..if u r made for each other no1 can separate u
so give ur best shot n leave the rest on GOD..HE wud not disappoint u
BEST OF LUCK
2007-08-30 06:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by jas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many ifs and buts. Be sure of yourself and what you want.
If you say you love her and she you then why do you doubt her and think whether she will wait for you??
If you think like this now and later you will ruin your life with your doubts ??
Firstly, let me tell you its okay to get married to a girl elder to you many people do it but we dont hear of it..
Firstly, the society and others come later, are you ready mentally to accept her and she you. If you are ready and have no problem then no one else matters other than your parents.
Secondly its the society who have fixed these norms, we have to break these norms in order live our own life....
Your parents will surely object so you have to be financially i.e stand on own feet, self dependant and mentally strong to stand by your decision and love.
2007-08-29 23:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by diana a 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, take a deeep deeeep breath and calm down!!! If you love her, she loves you, FORGET what other people say or snicker behind your backs! If the Father's don't agree for the marriage, let them disown you! You'll have each other!! If she doesn't wait, then she cannot possible love you, alright? And BELIEVE ME... I know, you can LIVE without her if you have too... Remember?: Suicide is never the question, answer nor solution!!
2007-08-30 05:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that you can't marry her. Ofcourse you can. The master blaster's wife is much more elder to him may be seven years. They are leading a successful married life. It is upto you to make decision whether you want to marry each other or not. Waiting is totally person and understanding issue.
2007-08-30 00:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by JAMES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, at the end of the day it is ur life... you have to make ur own decisions, afterall ur dad and her dad have lived their lives, now it is yoy, NO i am not telling you to rebel, just do it right, if yu think she really loves u and u love her too, then i suggest take the plunge...afterall true love is rare my friend and a true lover rarer.. Go for it..my best wishes...
2007-08-29 23:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by The Joker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when both of you have come up to a consensus nothing will matter both of u are educated and she is ready for a job. let her get employed and then when you are financially sound theneverything your parents her parents, age, society all will become secondary . age is nothing to worry it is all set by our elders parents etc., it will be changing with time and people go aehad if you are financially sound theneverybody will cooperate and things will be bette go ahead wish u best of luck my boy
2007-08-30 18:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by sambamurthy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance' is 8 years younger than me. In love, age doesn't matter - two years is nothing at all. I don't know what your father's will say about it, but two years should not leave you hesitating.
2007-08-30 05:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like her as a suitable match & have enough convincing power, she is really good for marriage without any problem at all.
2007-08-30 01:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the people who are holding you back, that they are wrong. I MET MY WIFE WHEN I WAS 16 AND SHE WAS 18 , we were married for 54 years before she died.
2007-08-30 00:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by jms043 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn it bada chota you love kalash go ahead make your day enjoy man instead of asking questions to people all around the world do haath mein ladoo aur logo se sawaal brother iam just joking you are lucky man onething i tell you your educational qualification is superb
2007-08-29 23:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by venkatraman s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋