ok so im 23 years old and he's 37...we are going for 8 months and he asked me to move in with him which i did. i know u shouldnt move in with someone you date for 8 months but its just for fun im not going to marry him or anything...anyways, so he has 2 chilren, 2 boys... they are 4 and 6 years old.. my boyfriend always touches me in front of her children. i mean we have a great sex life we have it 3 times a day and he doesnt get embaressed infront of his children. when we are eating breakfast he comes and grabs my breast and sometimes we have sex on his childrens bed or on the floor. he is not embaressed to do it.. and im concerned abuot it... he also always does it infront of EVERYone not justnhis kids once he did it infront of his friends he always touches me...i told him to stopfew times but he doesnt listen. i like him but its really annoying me when he touches my nipples and squeezes them in front of people. i talk to him but he doesnt listen what should i say??
2007-08-29 22:49:32 · 9 answers · asked by mary l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLS dont REPORT this question its serious......
2007-08-29 22:50:12 · update #1
Consider the fact that he always seems to be 'touching' you...ALL the time. Have you given a thought that this relationship could be just bordering on sexual lust and attraction? Adding to it, you're just 23. To a 37 guy like him, a 23 woman would be a great target girlfriend, she'd be young, still good-looking, pretty, hot, anything like that. Plus, you should also start looking out for his children. What do you think about the children's development if they see their father 'groping' his girlfriend 24/7 in front of them? Now you talk to him and he does not listen to you, is that a good boyfriend? Do you think what he's doing is right?
If not, I suggest that this relationship is not a good one to keep. In fact, if you're not planning a future with him, I guess this relationship is really just going downhill in the end. Why not end it quicker and you can get the respect you really deserve?
2007-08-29 23:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Briannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u havin sex on his kids beds and in front of em, he shouldnt hav kids and neither should u if thats what yous r doin.... grow up how would u of liked it if your parents had sex on your bed or in front of u... if u dont like it leave him or move out if talkin hasnt worked yet then its not going to take a stand
2007-08-30 06:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by angelz@princess265 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hes doing the wrong thing when it comes to kids so you would have to say hes not a good father and you moved in with him knowing you dont want to get married so making him stop well you should be thinking what the **** am I doing here,If you cant make him stop who is
2007-08-30 05:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a lack of respect for both you and the children. I would not tolerate that at all. Tell him that either he quits embarrassing you and disrespecting the children, or you will leave.
2007-08-30 06:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that ur really really not comfortable being touched like that in front of other people...if he continues to do it then slap some sense into him when he tries it again
2007-08-30 05:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by taylor b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you dont like that to be done in front of kids and other people. if he dont listen and stop then its time to find someone else who would respect your wishes.
2007-08-30 05:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought of a nice HARD slap when he embarrasses you? It will either stop him, or break you up. Either way you are better off.
2007-08-30 05:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds hot. Tell him he can squeeze you in front of me, and I won't mind.
2007-08-30 05:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by bobdahead 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should say "BYE"!
2007-08-30 05:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋