when people have sex are you supposed to orgasm together?

Question

are you supposed to orgasm together or just do it when you do it whats better

Answer 1

It can be either or. A while back I was in a relationship with a girl and like 3 outta the five time we'd finish together, it was truly amazing and brought us closer together. But, not everyone finishes at the same time and people accept that. Sometimes its nice to finish aftre your partner finishes, like tipping them I guess, they finished, you give them a little bit more pleasure and then you finish but in the end, it depends on the individual.

Answer 2

the big myth of Orgasm and reaching Climax together is driving man woman nuts.

It is only enough that man has warm heart and strong body.. male should ensure female to get wet with lot of hugging, kissing, massaging ,sucking where ever curves and hills are there .

once the female is hot enough and wet enough to receive the male , insertion should take place and with variations in speed and power

This will ensure Pleasure, Excitement, Orgasm ,Climax,, but "together reaching" will create a tension and you will need Stop watch with some volunteer to tell you Yes you have done it..
Forget all this , Experience will teach you and both will find out which is best way to do it... but both need to be patient, calm and cooperative for finding next best experience and not just loose in Reaching Together Madness.
the Car can race up.. till both are able to see the road ahead and no accident happens..

Answer 3

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when people have sex are you supposed to orgasm together?
are you supposed to orgasm together or just do it when you do it whats better

Answer 4

Its the idea.. and would be nice, but for the most part its not going to happen. Woman dont orgasm as easy as a man. We rarely even orgasm during sex... may feel really good but to actually orgasm is highly unlikely.

Answer 5

That doesn't happen often, & happens even less often if the guy isn't trying to make it happen. A man can make it happen if he's skilled & has a good woman who will communicate with him. He can control his pace, & as she tells him she's about to orgasm, he can go all out, sometimes causing this to happen. However, most often, if he can hold off, & she can orgasm several times before his one, they will both leave happy, regardless of when his happens.

Answer 6

It feels kind of pressured when you feel like you have to wait for the other person to climax...

most guys like woman to orgasm a few times, so you cant really expect them to orgasm with you every time...

Do it when you feel it is coming...
But if you are lucky like i have been... your chemistry is so strong and your rhytm is so perfect climax together its sooooo good.

Answer 7

Orgasm if you can. Once you've orgasmed a few times, you can start to get picky about the specific details (e.g. synchronized orgasm). Save it for something to do if you get bored with regular sex.

Answer 8

Both people don't "have to" finish together, but anyone who knows what they're talking about will tell you that a good lover will manage to time it almost exactly at the same time. It's a great thing, but again, if he or she finishes first and is a good lover, then they will continue on until the other person is satisfied as well.

Answer 9

A couple almost never orgasm together. Any one who tells u different are faking it. Why would you want to anyway once he blows his load the whole thing is over anyway. Most women can't orgasm through intercourse so they have to have some form of stimulation on their clitoris. So don't sweat it if you explode before he does

Answer 10

There is no fixed rule there. A simultaned orgasm is the best, though it ask a lot of timing.

Actually, if you orgasm togheter, that is awesome. It happened with one girl and she was actually cumming only Thinking about that one time we came togheter.

Bleh.