I've been single for most of my life. Now, I have the opportunity to be in a relationship. I've wanted this for a long time. But when I think about it too much, I get stuck in my thoughts. Sometimes I need to be away from her. Other times I want to be with her. We "broke up" a week ago, and I missed her sometimes and was glad to have my own time as well. Now, she wants to pursue a relationship. What I feel is that we're already in a relationship, and it's just that I don't know how long it will last. It might blossom or it might fail. She's got a lot of great things and a few not so great things. Do I go for her, and ride the wave, or do I choose to stay on the beach?
2007-08-29 21:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by wonderboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best opinion you'll get. Go and ask her, you'll regret it later. And trust your intuition.
2007-08-29 21:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sun And Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... there is an art.
You need to work yourself out first. When you know what you have to have in life, then see if adding her to your life allows you to be who you want to be.
Most partners take thing from our lives that we wish they wouldn't. Other times we have to give things to them that wedon't want to give.
It is no good saying..."Go away so I can miss you."
You need to realise that if she goes away you will miss her.
Once you start to remember that... you will stop pushing her away, even though she is taking from you...
All love costs us dearly eventually. A hear that has never lost has never loved...
So love and hurt and be sad and love some more.
And when she is taking up all your space... remember that you don't want to lose her... DO YOU?
2007-08-29 21:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by kierenmcnally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember that a woman is emotional. If you stimulate her emotionally, by complimenting her, giving sentimal cards, being romantic, you will always have her heart. If you neglect her, or treat her with disrespect, you will lose her affections.
If you find a good one, hold on. They are not all good!!!!
2007-08-29 21:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, there is an art of doing any act, may be it loving or alike.
But what is art to one, it might be hurt to another.
2007-08-29 21:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell how you feel like what you wrote here.Then she will understand and give you space for yourself.If she really love you then she will not put presure on you. good luck.
2007-08-29 21:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sinatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋