what do you think my girlfriend's response?

Question

what do you guys think of my girlfriend's response for not calling me or chating much? I find it weird that she doesnt put half of of the responsibilities in a relationship.
here is her response:well i dont know what to say. being in this, will admit that i have been lagging it and have not put as much effort as i know i should. honestly, im just worn out, i mean all ive done is read, casually go on teh internet to check my messages and stuff but that is it. i have not made an effort. i know ur a great guy and obviously will definitely come hard by. i honestly do love u and care about u its just that im being so lazy. i too enjoy ur company but since i havent told my parents, its hard for me to ask them to go out without them getting all suspicious. i care about u and i do want 2 be with u. i was thinking of telling my parents about us 1ce we started hanging out more. i really dont like 2 talk on the phone plus i have called a few times. i dont see us as a fling and ur not one.......

Answer 1

Relationships are not be done thru texting, email, etc. All you got to do is call her...make plans...pick her up...and spend time together. Time together is the key to it all. (plus, it sounds like you guys are too young to worry about it anyway and she doesn't have permission to date from her parents...wait till you grow up a little.)

Answer 2

i dont really like talking on the phone either. when you are staying with your parents its hard to have time for a relationship if they not the kind to let you date. And that would make any relationship suffer if you do try. but saying love and saying that in the same statement....well I dont know. Everyone thinks its love but it isnt always

Answer 3

It doesn't seem she is too involved in this relationship. I would move on to someone who will give you the time and respect you deserve. In the long run you will have less heartache.