what to talk about with her?

Question

so i started school recently and this really pretty girl started to talk to me, but im a really shy person i only talk to my close friends, and she talks to me just about everyday, just saying hi, or how was your day, i like her, but when she talks to me i just usually say and its an akward silence and i guess she's dissapointed, so what can i talk to her about? im not into sports much but i just really don't know what to say please help

Answer 1

get her to talk... trust me, girls lovvvve to talk rather than listen. make her tell you every detail of her day.. and ask questions from there. good luck.

Answer 2

This would be me and you, I am very outgoing and was always attracted to the shy type guys. But after many many years of life, I've learned quite a bit. She probably talks more if you talk less. I used to blabber incessantly to cover up quiet time, and the shy guys actually liked quiet time. I would put it out in the open, with me, if I know the person is shy, I will shut up and ask what they want to talk about or if they want to be quiet or go to the show on a date where you don't have to talk. My grown daughter was shy and I thought I was doing her a favor by asking along another shy person her age to dinner but after we got home she told me it was horrible because neither of them had anything to say. Ask other shy people and practice talking more to others or even write stories as if you are talking and then maybe tell them into a tape recorder etc. My daughter taught me a lot. I always thought shy people were snobs until one very nice one taught me they were just shy but shy people often appear aloof to blabber mouths like me as you can tell by this long post. you can do it, but go out with her where you don't have to talk a lot altho she is going to want to, If you tell her it is hard for you, she will actually help you as we chatters want everyone to chat. Goodluck Ps Write notes !!! that really works even married people when they fight often resort to writing THE BOTTOM LINE IS THAT SHE THINKS ON HER FEET AND YOU PROBABLY DON'T BIG ISSUE HERE You need time

Answer 3

Ask her questions about herself like how was her day, what she got on a quiz, start from the basics and then ask her a little more personal questions like what music she's into, her favorite movie/show, and act like you're interested in what she is saying (and you should be anyway since you like her lol). Also bring up something that she said before because girls love it when they find out a guy remembers stuff about them or what they said and is also a sign that the guy likes her.

Answer 4

There is a basic conversation tip in this book I have, and that is listen. People love to talk about themselves, but there is a big difference between hearing and listening. For example, if u ask her 'what music do you like' and she says something that you like, ask her about a specific artist, and if you don't like it as much, ask her what she likes about it. If your nervous (and it sounds like it) make a list of things u already know and things to ask. Also, she may be waiting 4 u to make a move. Ask her out if you are getting comfortable. Even if she says no, u can still be frends. Good luck!

Answer 5

Hi Hon...
Why don't you just be honest with her..
Tell her about your shyness, and tell that you love when she speaks to you, And that you love listening to her talk, but never know the right thing to say because of your shyness.
Tell her you need her help..I'm sure she'll be glad to help you..
And ask her out to dinner or lunch..Sometimes being with someone face to face, gives you the incentive to be able to speak a little more freely..
Good Luck Sweetie!

PS..Remember..Honesty is the best policy!

Answer 6

I'm in that same problem

buh just talk about anything that comes to mind sports movies who she lives with all that

cuz it worked for me cuz after i knew alot about her i just fell in love with her

so just talk about her interests

and keep on listening ot her

Answer 7

if you have classes together you can talk about assignments/incidents in class/how mean and/or unfair a teacher is lol, if you know shes on a team or in a club, you can ask how thats going. if something funny or interesting happened to you or someone you both mutually know, you can tell that story. try to find something you are both interested in.

Answer 8

well when she's talking to you, make good eye contact with her. just talk about the things she's talking about with you. like for instance, she would ask you about your day. go on and ask her if anything interesting happened or if she likes her new classes.

Answer 9

Girls don't want to hear about sports in the first place! lol


Uhmm, just ask her how school's going for her so far..and so on....just get to know her as much as you can...you'll be able to find out if she likes you then you can ask her out if you want!

Answer 10

Better you remain silent and let her continue (her sayings whatever, she is the most suitable guide to tell you what to talk about with her).