Ok, so my neighbor (I'll call her Suzie) and I have known each other since we were wearing diapers, and we both know each other really well. Today, me, my brother, "Suzie," a friend of hers, her brother, and both my and her mom went to a place called Canobie Lake Park, which is sort of like a scaled down version of Disney. "Suzie" has this friend (Lets say her name is Betty), who happens to be hot. We both flirted a bit, but "Betty" didn't show any other of those signs of attraction (lots of eye contact, touching her hair, touching me, etc...) but I think she likes me. So the question is, should I go for it? I don't know if "Suzie" would take it in a bad way, like, for example, she would if her brother went out with her friend (Which she actually said to me would be weird). So I'm just asking for your opinion, would you do it or stay away?
2007-08-29 15:33:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i personally would go for it because it seems like it may be slightly akward for "suzie" at first but if she is at all like the friends i have she will get used to it and be fine with it. and hey it sounds like she likes you and if she doesn't at least you don't have to wonder what could of been. If she doesn't like you then you won't die either. So i would go for it and i think you should to
2007-08-29 15:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by ChicagoCubs07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, first off : always go for it.
Having said that, since it is Suzie's friend you are attracted to, You would want to give Suzie a heads up on how you feel about her friend. Then perhaps she become the "in between" and sorta let you in on what her friend Betty likes and dislikes(you might end up finding she isn't for you!). Suzie can also tell you if Betty had a great time at the party etc. Then you can get a more valid feel of what happen that night you guys met at the Park.
Find out from Suzie when Betty will be at the next get together and then go from there. Step by step and always proceed with caution, but never back out, because YOU never know.
Good Luck :) (I hope I go the names/situation straight)
2007-08-29 15:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does Suzie has any interest in betty? Is Betty single, free and disenaged? Does Betty has any baggage? These are questions i asked myself before jumping into anything.. Field Betty out and get to know Betty...Likes and disliked.. Friends first is always good then if all is cleared work yourself in slowly...
Best of luck..
2007-08-29 15:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by IrressitibleCher 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it...just don't hurt her friend if it works out though...that would only really make things weird between you and Suzie. Let Suzie know how you feel also, let her know you wouldn't mind hooking up with her friend
2007-08-29 15:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Shelle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
without the signs you mentioned I would be careful with this one, especially since you seem to value suzie's friendship.
If you can hold out for a little while (i know it may be hard if she's as hot as you say) to see if any sure signs develop,it may be a good idea; if she's into you there will be no mistake about it and the signs will be clear.
2007-08-29 15:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump right in. Either it will happen or it won't. If Suzie is a real friend, she will understand.
2007-08-29 15:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ask her out and if Suzie gets mad then you tell her I didn't know if it was OK and that way you know if the friend likes you and next time one of her friends loOKs hot you will know if it is ok
2007-08-29 15:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by nana 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You never know until you go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? You might be a little embaressed or whatever if she says she just likes being friends but if she says yes, well then you've got yourself a date!
Just Imagine the possibilities if she says yes!
But, even if she says no, you could still build that relationship until she feels for you in a different way.
So....GO FOR IT! :)
2007-08-29 15:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by fyexchi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before You make the decision, Yous hould bring it up to your friend and say "would it bother you" or "does "Betty" like me?"
After that then decide if you should make the move which i think you should wait but thats just my intake!!!!
Sorry if i didn't help!!!
2007-08-29 15:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by maggie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you want to do. Sure someone else might have a problem with it, but you can not always seriously consider the sorounding political / social effects or you will never get laid.
Go for it :)
2007-08-29 15:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jima 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋