Parents especially mothers of daughters seem to be always on your case this is because she cares about you. She knows you are growing up, and she doesn't want to accept it yet. Maybe you can try talking to her and stand up for yourself as far as the dating situation, if you are in America we don't have arranged marriages, so express to her that you like a certain guy and list some good qualities about him. She will probably never completely accept anyone you date anyway, they never do I have been with my husband now for seven years and my parents still don't care for him a whole lot. Keep up what your doing, it shows your responsible enough to make your own decisions and don't slip up. She will come around with time.
2007-08-29 13:47:48
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answered by crymeariver 5
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I actually went to see a psychiatrist about this when I was a teenager. After several sessions, he asked me, "If Mary were the mother of one of your good friends instead of being your mother, would you like her as a person?" I had to answer, "No." He said, "That's your problem. You don't like her. And that's OK. Everyone has a person or persons that they just do not like, and this one happens to be your mother." There wasn't much I could do about it, but I no longer felt guilty about it, or let her bother me. I just put up with her and moved out 2 days after HS graduation..
2007-08-29 21:09:49
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answered by old beatnik 6
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Have you tried talking to your mom about how she makes you feel? I know it's not easy, but your mom sounds like she wants to be your friend. Sometimes it's just not that easy. It's obvious that you love each other and that you care what she thinks. Try having a conversation with her about it. Start by acknowledging her concerns.... Mom, I know you are concerned about me and want to spend time together... I need time with my friends. When you talk about my weight, it makes me feel like xxxx.. Just let her know that you also want a relationship with her, you just have other needs that need to be met also. I'm sure you two can reach a compromise that's agreeable for both of you.
2007-08-29 20:51:30
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answered by pickles1720 2
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Mothers...are always MEAN well they seem like it.
Have you tried to talk to your mom.
I Mean she shouldnt be mad about your weight unless you have like a Food disorder but other than that. She shouldn't care. Sorry but maybe you need to set your mother stright and tell her that you dont like when you get on your case about that kinda stuff.
2007-08-29 20:50:13
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answered by LiZZY BOO 2
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She probably is thinking that her girl is growing up too fast and wants to spend more time with you.Maybe you should tell her something...like...you will always be her girl.But you deserve some 'alone time' with your friends.
2007-08-29 21:13:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Well she is probably looking at you because she is very proud of how you turned out! She probably wants you to hang out with her because she loves you and wants to spend time with her daughter!! I know you need time with your friends but you r friends can let you down but your Mom can't!!!!!
2007-08-29 20:46:33
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answered by jojo100 2
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just try all ur best to make her happy
2007-08-29 20:50:05
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answered by funky_babe 2
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