I need some major advise..I am confused and heart broken.....?

Question

I can't believe this my boyfriend (rocky) and my ex (spencer) have teamed up on me. My ex boyfriends friend told me that my bofriend doesn't really like me and that my ex boyfriend is infatuated with me.I found this really weird stalker note on my car that statededI'll never forget that you were mine".Uh, I was like okay and thought my boyfriend did it. asked my boyfriend and he got mad and accused me of seeing another guy and say "your probably seeing spencer again aren't you"..I thought his reaction was kind of weird.Anyway, I asked my ex's friend what was going on.( I know, its like high school) Well, he said that the ex has always been a sissy when it came to the me and that he cried when he found out that I had a new and better love. Also, he said that my now boyfriend just wanted to take me from my ex because he said he could and that they are both just fighting over me.I don't really believe that, but my boyfriend has accused me alot these past weeks
This does'nt happen anymor

Answer 1

I would ditch both of them. What losers.

Answer 2

I can understand why you are confused and heartbroken; your story sounds like a soap opera.However, I think your main problem is with your current boyfriend and not so much with your ex.He should not be in co hoots with Spencer especially when the issue has to do with you. Rather than accuse you of infidelity or getting mad at you ,he should defend you against the behavior of Spencer.It appears as if Rocky is guilty of just trying to make a point with you and may not truly care for or love you. The fight may have nothing to do with their respective feelings for you but may actually be an ego trip or a power struggle between them.While I know you are in love with Rocky, I suggest that you start thinking of ending the romance you have with him.You deserve better than a guy who will not defend or support his gal( even if she was wrong)but would instead blame her. Think about it.

Answer 3

Wow, they're both angry with you. I suggest you tried very hard to avoid them. Maybe even take a sudden vacation. You can explain to your school, the reason for it.