Well the last guy tried to impress me by showing me his myspace which is had too many photos of him drinking and smoking. I say I don't need to get wasted or stoned all the time for people to like me. I don't know if the guys that like me our duds or if I have too high of an expectation. I haven't been on many dates so I expect a guy to treat me like a lady...I guess there are not many guys like that.
2007-08-29 12:42:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know I really liked you until about 2 weeks ago,You have slap went F-ing crazy..
You telling guys to wear Pink to go out with you,cause you want to show them who is Boss,you don't run nobody.
You have got MODEST,conceited,think you are all that,,No wonder you are 21 yrs old,living at home,virgin, Look at your ways....geeissh
Then look at the TOP line of your Question 95% of the time I THINK I'M TO GOOD FOR THE GUYS...Yes it something wrong with you...reread PLs
2007-08-29 15:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTLY NOT! There is nothing wrong with you. There is everything right with you.You are just being true to yourself. And maybe your there before other people u know. Who gives a crap about this guys myspace. It should take alot more to impress you then a dumb myspace. Drinking and Smoking arent as cool as some people think they are. I dont think they duds just not for you. You may want to widen you dating pool. Depending on your age will depend on your activites. But trust me there are still plenty of men out there that will hold the door open for you, be polite and kind and not creepy who will respect you and work hard for your respect.
Now if your finding fault with every little thing... the hair isnt the right color, or too tall too skinny,not enough this, too much of that, You may just not be ready to date right now and need to focus in on you... Your obviously not happy with something. But im sure its just the guys around just arent up to par. No worries dating should be fun, and youll know it when you find it.
2007-08-29 19:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are looking for too perfect of a man, which doesn't exist. No one is perfect, and that includes you. Many people smoke and drink, but that is not what defines them. How about getting off the guy's MySpace and going out on a date? Looking at someone's MySpace is not the greatest tool in getting to know them. You are being too picky and may end up lonely because you are thinking of a fairy tale/The Notebook kind of romance that really doesn't exist. Ordinary people fall in love every day because they are looking within, rather than what is found on their MySpace's. My boyfriend drinks, but he treats me phenomenally and I feel like a princess every day. He is defined as the good person he is, not the weekend drinker that you would see him for.
2007-08-29 19:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that guy you mentioned sounds like a douche lol. If all the guys who have approached you are just as much as a douche as that guy, then nothing is wrong with you. Its better to keep your standard high then lower, you have a lower risk of being hurt you know? You sound like the type who can be a challenge for a guy to go after....but you will find a guy who wont care about being challenged by your high standards, he will break through your wall because he actually wants to be with you for more than just sex, because lets face it....those who just want sex dont like a challenge...they want ot get it over with quick and easy....so keep doing what youre doing, you will be better off in the long run.
2007-08-29 19:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is nothing wrong with having high standards. I cant believe he tried to impress you by showing how much of a party animal he is. Guys like that tend to get bored easily and almost always ending up cheating.
A guy should impress you by not showing how much of a tool he is and how "cool" he is, but by pampering you with gentleness and being a gentleman. Yes they are hard to find but when you do find one, ask yourself if you can see spending the rest of your life with him. Us girls are pretty smart, you'll know in your heart when you find the right one.
Hope everything works out. xoxo
2007-08-29 19:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by shiftymad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of the way you're viewing it, yes, you sound conceited. You say that you think you're too good for them when in all reality, they probably just aren't the right person for you. Yes, keep your high standards. No, there aren't tons of amazing guys out there, but remember... you only need one amazing guy... and if I can find one, so can you. Keep your standards high, but humble yourself. You aren't better than everyone else, you just have DIFFERENT standards... and that is okay. Don't go for anything but the best... but also remember that you'll only attract someone amazing, if you're amazing too.
2007-08-29 19:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i, know. That's how i feel too sometimes, it happens because girls are more mature than guys. Guys mature never. . . i mean much later. late teens and early twenties girls n guys have raging hormones. but more in guys thats y they are wild 'n' aggressive. We all dream of perfect guys but either either that prince charming is looking for another prince charming or he's a player.
Well there are a few guys out there who know how to treat women, they maybe older but iguess its okay.
ITs good that u r careful,. . ..there are a lot of guys that can hurt u if ur not careful. . .. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-08-29 20:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by kate_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a huge lack of proper men out there. I wouldn't lower my expectations if I were you... you wouldn't want to be with some miserable person, would you?
Although you'll have to keep in mind that nobody is perfect. I happen to know one of the last decent men on earth. He's a sweetie-pie, but GOODGODS he drives me nuts sometimes!
2007-08-29 19:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by witch_cat_meihama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with having high esteem but have you tried giving the guys a chance? Try to be nice
2007-08-29 19:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you and i agree if i was shown pics of a lady smoking and getting drunk that would be an absolute turn off --- keep your high expectations and while there may not be that many guys that meet them they exist and you will find one --- probably when you least expect it ---- best wishes
2007-08-29 19:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋