Okay! Well I really like this guy and he knows that I like him..I see him everyday at school. I have the urge to talk to him but I get scared and I freeze up..Also i dont know what to say to him. I dont even know if he likes me back. I seriously like this guy, but I just dont know what to do or say.Please help me..cuz i really want something to happen between me and him...Thank You!!
2007-08-29 10:29:34 · 30 answers · asked by Fresh/.Soul 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem.
I guess just be like so how do you like school so far or what ever.
Smile @ him
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2007-08-29 10:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On way to stat of is to try your very best to block these negative thoughts in your head because, if you don't when you go up to speak to him you will freeze up. A nice way to start off a convo with a guy is usual to say hi but, don't stop there though! continue with the usual convo starter eg: So it's a nice day? or how are you?
From this you will start to feel a more relaxed and will be able to speak to him now. After that well you decide!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-08-29 10:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Your little helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, by thinking about making a conversation you went a blew it. Let me explain why.
If you like someone you need to go up to them and start a conversation within 3 seconds NO EXCUSES. Basically throw yourself in the deep end because you dont have time to become anxious etc etc plus it makes you appear much more confident attractive and assertive.
2007-08-29 10:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him a question about something that he likes. Try and word the question so that it can't be answered with a yes or no answer. ie "What do you think the chances of the school football team getting into the regional playoffs this year are?"
2007-08-29 10:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...it all depends on your personality...if you are REALLY shy...sit with him on the bus or in class and write him a note saying we need to talk and he probably will be saying about what and you say i really need to know if you like me or not...that is what i did and the guy told me yes...if you are more of the outgoing person you need to just say that to his face or on the phone so he does not think it is a joke and he says no...
I hope that helped....
2007-08-29 10:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by chandlar t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self. Start the conversation with the weather is nice today or the weather is Cold today. Or just ask what they thought about a ball game. Or something they are interested in.
2007-08-29 10:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up and compliment him. Talk about eachother but don't be too forward, get to know him and let him get to know you. Don't get nervous! at the end of the day he's just a person like you. Good luck!!!!
2007-08-29 10:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by car_spotter_simon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes, example : sports, hobbies, who his friends are...
You can come up with an easy convo that way...
You wont seem like you have nothing to say, because what you'll be talking about will be something he's interested in.
Good Luck!
2007-08-29 10:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Bella Ragazza♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi first..
then try and start up a conversation about something you know he really likes and is interested in, then hes sure to carry on the conversation and talk to you
2007-08-29 10:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going to have to smile and say hi each time you come into contact with him and pretty soon he will start to notice and smile back - at that time you can say how are you? and keep the conversation going.
2007-08-29 10:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the exact same problem, butb he likes me too.....but i dont know...i still get scared to talk to him even tho i know he likes me too....but anyways....all i do is say hey, how are you...then just ask him something what are u doin today, just say or ask something, the the conversation will flow from there, trust me, it always happens to me!
2007-08-29 10:36:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋