Getting guys my age (14) to notice me is hard because I am only 4ft10in and I could pass as a 10 year old.
Of course people in my grade know how old I am...but that doesnt make me attractive, I don't think that they would want to date someone who looks to be 10 years old.
How do I get guys (my age) to notice me?!?!?!?
Please and thank you for your help!!!
2007-08-29 10:18:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't really wear clothes that make me look older because I have to get all of my clothes from the childrens section because I am so small!
2007-08-30 01:29:55 · update #1
Well, are you attractive in the first place? If no, then guys won't notice you right away, especially at your age, because they aren't mature yet.
So if you aren't hot, then you'll have to use personality, be funny, be happy, be caring....Wen you watch a movie about a girl catching a guy, what does her personality seem like? I know you are going through an odd time in your life, but guys noticing you isn't the end of the world, u will see.
2007-08-29 10:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a couple of years to see if you grow some. If not, start looking for clothes that are more adult - not hoochie-mama gear, but stuff with classic lines and tailored style. Don't try this trick until you're older, though, at your age you'll just look like a little girl playing dress-up!
Seriously, though - you don't need to fuss so much about catching the boys attention at your age. Just be patient and let time do its work on you AND them.
2007-08-29 17:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my name is mike and my wife is only 5' tall so she is only a little taller than u. Alot of guys like short girls so dont even worry about that. As far as getting them to notice u, they are thinking the same thing (how do i get her to notice me). Trust me they notice u. Best advise is not be to shy, or worried about rejection. Dont be afraid to go up to them and talk, make the first move. Guys can be sort of dumb and shy at your age so if u r shy, have a friend help u. And if someone rejects u dont sweat it cause there are plenty out there that would love to hang with u. Hopethis helps
2007-08-29 17:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by jobu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! Talk to guys you know, find some common ground, but remember to show you are still a girl. Many guys at age 14 aren't really into the whole dating thing yet, but the more you talk to guys, the more likely you will find the right one for you!
2007-08-29 17:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way for you to draw attention for yourself, is to 'change your appearance.'
Might wanna get a new hair cut, maybe start using some make up .. Nothing over the top, just a little .. The clothes you wear also make a big difference.
2007-08-29 17:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not much I can tell you except that guys at that age usually like girls for their bodies. And you are better off not having a guy that likes you for that reason. It is not easy, but I wouldn't be in any hurry. When the guys get more mature, then you can find one who likes you for who you are.
2007-08-29 17:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nathan W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there honey. Well try smiling at boys, and if they smile back it shows they find you welcoming. Try chatting to boys, they will soon see the person you are, and if they ignore you when you try and talk to them , then you deserve much better. Walk tall && dont be fake, boys are attracted to down- to -earth girls. Hope you find these tips useful! All My Love && Good Luck x
2007-08-29 17:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably need to change your clothing style so you look older and maybe some make up changes as well. Your height and body shape aren't as important as what your wearing.
2007-08-29 17:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree...just be yourself...act mature thats imoprtant too, and yes, the right guy will come one day... my favourite quotes is: "everyone is someone's dream". so yea
maybe to look a little older, try wearing a little bit of makeup, but dont over do it. wear really cute clothin, like cute mini skirts, and some cute shirt....so yea hope this helps!
2007-08-29 17:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i know this may sound weird, but most girls think that by being loud and laughing loud etc. that guys will notice you and that may be true, but the WRONG guys will notice you. if you want to attract GOOD guys you should be sweet and helpful. NOT LOUD ! guys will just think ur annoying. if they need help in school offer to help them. by being sweet and selfless guys will respect you and that is the most important thing.
2007-08-29 17:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋