theres this boy who just came to my school. and hes in my class. almost all the girls in my class thinks hes cutee !! and so do i (: one girl already asked him out, and he said she wasnt his type. and i heard another girl talking about asking him out. and todayy at lunch, me and my friends were talking to him. he sounds really sweet. any advise to get him to notice me ??
2007-08-29 10:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by iloveyou (: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eh...k
Well, to get him to notice you, you have to pursue him more than the other girls in a calm way so he wont be "freaked."
Do what the other girls do and just talk to him before they even get a chance. Competition is what is keeping you from this guy that you think is "cute."
Talking with him: Dont lie about yourself, be true and tell him the basics of yourself in a short amount of time. If its too long, he MIGHT get turned off, 10-20 minutes is always good, if he doesn't seem to mind jabber on for however you want.
If he really thinks you are for him, he will begin to like you more than the other girls and then you'll be ready to take the steps.
If you aren't his type, then just get over it. There's PLENTY of cute guys out in the world, and im pretty sure you;ll grab one without having to be worried about 20 other girls trying to get him as well.
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2007-08-29 10:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend first, since he is new to the school...Im sure he needs some help getting around and a friendly face to help him do so:) Who knows, maybe he will be confident enough to ask you out then.
2007-08-29 17:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best plan of attack is to wait until he comes to you-he might turn out to be a real creep or something...LISTEN carefully to what he says, and what others say about him-get to know as much as possible so you'll know if he's worth it first.
2007-08-29 17:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jody H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you're in middle school judging by the girls randomly asking the guy out. talking to him is the best way to get him to notice you. so just talk to him and get to know him.
2007-08-29 17:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you can your friends plan boy/girl party and invite him so he can get to know a number of you.
2007-08-29 17:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what type of girl he likes then if your his type of girl then ask him out
2007-08-29 17:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by ashmat12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?!?!
just stick ot learning and worry aobut this later
2007-08-29 17:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋