My father is very weird. My daughter who is 15 is living with me now. She had lived with her Dad from age 10 to 15 and us both before that.
Well, now he tries to dominate and take over her life. He tries to act like her father. He is very irritating to both my daughter and I.
I have to tell him to back off and not be so pushy.
He also tries to tell everyone that he is a professor. So what?
He wants to petition the school so that my child has a bus since she will now go to a school farther away from the home.
He also looks at dirty websites and my daughter saw him doing that. I have told him to please be careful because there is a child in the house.
His intents may be good, but he does not control his mouth at times and is very controlling just like my ex-husband.
I am also disgusted with his Internet habits.
What can I do except talk with him or just ignore him?
2007-08-29 10:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Obviously you and your daughter have talked about his behavior- perhaps BOTH OF YOU need to confront him.. Your daughter has a father- tell your father that. END OF STORY. As for the Internet thing tell him to SHUT door so if he is looking at inappropriate things then your daughter will not be subjugated. Let him have his day telling all he is a professor (its his accomplishment) but when it comes to the transportation (bus) TELL him that as the parent YOU (stareyes) will make ALL the decisions concerning her. As for the control- refer to the above sentence. Any more questions?- I'm right here. Hope it helps.
2007-08-30 06:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are living in your father's house, it would seem natural for him to take on a parental role toward your daughter. But if he's behaving inappropriately and won't stop, you will have to move out. Try to come to some agreement with him if you can. But if you can't, find another place to live. After all, you are an adult and responsible for your daughter's welfare.
2007-08-29 17:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say why you are living with him. It may be time to get a place of your own for you and your daughter.
2007-08-29 17:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where is he a professor? Is it at a school? I'm sure it wouldn't go over easy with the school that he looks at porn sites.... if you know what I mean..... ?
I'd address the situation with him and see what he has to say for himself. You should let the authorities know what is going on when he has your child in the house. -Good luck.
2007-08-29 17:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
do you live with him? because if you do then maybe you should think about finding another place to live...and if you dont live with him then stop taking your daughter around someone that obviously doesnt respect neither of you
2007-08-29 17:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by made it to the top 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him that if he does not stop being so controlling that you won't let your daughter see him.
2007-08-29 17:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a restraining order against him where he cannot go within a certain distance from your house "and theschool"! and also,change your phone number,if he insists call the cops.
2007-08-29 17:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋