2007-08-29 08:42:11 · 22 answers · asked by Short Fingers 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Need? I thought you'd feel the urge to do it, not need.
2007-08-29 09:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't say you "need" to buy her a gift, but it certainly is a nice gesture.
Depending on your price range, some ideas are:
1. Jewelry: a locket, a charm bracelet with a charm representing the baby, or something else that (if you're having a girl) she could "pass on" to the baby someday. Unless she has specifically told you that she likes them, do NOT buy your wife a mother's ring or pendant.
2. Flowers or a plant--especially something you can plant in your yard in honor of your child's birth.
3. A gift certificate for a spa day (or even just a pedicure) for after the baby arrives--and a promise that you'll take care of the baby.
4. A housekeeper (for a little while).
It's much more important that you're present and helpful, but a gift is a nice gesture. By helpful, I mean that you change diapers, do laundry (including folding and putting away), do dishes, make meals, handle phone calls from overenthusiastic relatives, bring her water/snacks while she's nursing the baby, encourage her to take naps, take turns getting up at night (if possible), tell her you appreciate the effort she's making in nursing your child, etc. Sorry if that sounds condescending but I'd have to spell it out like that for my husband. . .
Also--it's a nice touch if you get your wife flowers when your child turns one, just as a reminder that you appreciate the work she did carrying your child, giving birth, etc.
2007-08-29 15:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by eponine1028 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Uh no lol you gave birth as well. You shouldnt have to buy her anything at all. Unless you got her a real nice card or something. If you have other children you could get them a small gift to give the baby. But thats all. Theres no reason to get her anything its your child as well. People are suppost to get you, your wife and your child something together.
Mom of 5 boys
2007-08-29 15:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I think that is very special. at a time when you are showing such excitement and love for a new baby - she needs to know how special she still is to you. Right after many moms deliver they are feeling a sense of loss and lonliness because for the past 9 months they've had this little person "with" them and now everyone is not so concerned with them, but ooohing and cooing over the new little one. A small token (or BIG one:)) would be just the thing to tell her how much you love and appreciate her!
My husband got me a pendant of a money and child and to this day is my most prized possession! I've heard of other husbands sending their wives roses. Honestly, whatever you give her is going to be special.
Good luck!
2007-08-29 16:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kelli A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you'd like to commemorate that day with nice piece of jewelry or a locket. Be warned though, you'll be setting a precedent for future births. A bouquet of flowers, making sure the house is decent when she gets home, and allowing her to get some rest will be all the gift she needs. A professional massage and a good meal would be nice.
2007-08-29 15:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It would certainly be the nice thing to do, most people get flowers and things like that for the new mom....get creative, buy something sentimental that will last, I agree with those below on a nice locket, maybe a photo album, even a candy bouquet..those are neat too!
2007-08-29 15:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by evansgirl78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. A digital photo frame would be great, or a locket.
If you want to be more creative, go on itunes and somewhere, search imixes for ideas for songs for new moms, babies, etc.
Allison Krause has some pretty ones, so do the Dixie Chicks. Also try Elizabeth Mitchell for lullabies.
2007-08-29 15:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by lillilou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to--but it certainly would be a nice gesture for her putting up with 9 months of physical and emotional stress.
I'd say, get her a bracelet, or a necklace and have it picked out at jeweler, then when the baby's born--you can put the name and date of your baby's birthday. So it's kind of like a token.
Be a good husband....good luck!!
2007-08-29 15:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by cat 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your wife and on you.
Some wives expect it.
Some husbands feel impelled to spoil their wife afterward.
If you do give her a gift it is a hundred times more precious if it is given because your desire is to give her a gift.
2007-08-29 15:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by Melba 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Need to? No
But considering that she is giving you the ultimate gift that woman can give, it might be a nice gesture!
2007-08-29 15:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to, but it would definately be appreciated if you do. Giving birth is a very difficult thing to do. My husband bought me a pair of 1 carat diamond earrings when I got pregnant. They cost a little over $1,000.
2007-08-29 15:54:37 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋