Help me, I don't know what to do.?

Question

I'm in my early 20's. From a very young age I have suffered from chronic bad breath. The treatment forit is just too expensive and I just can't afford it. Due to this I have lost all my friends. I am so lonely now. I just have myself 24/7.
To make things worse I suffer from a skin condition that canot be diagnised.
I hate myself. I really do. My family is least supportive. They make things worse for me to be precise. I get told I'm ugly and that noone likes me prety much all the time.
Everyone has always hated me due to my umm what can I call it abnormality. I've only ever had one boyfriend that sexually harrased me everyday and then eventually left me for not satisfying him in bed.
I've also been madly in love with a guy for the last 3 years. I think of him and cry over him everyday. Knowing that i can never be with him kills me.
I don't know what to do. I don't see the point in living. I have noone and noone even knows I exist.

I follow a healthy diet and my dental hygene is perfect according to the dentists.

Answer 1

Stop wasting your precious life thinking about this no good guy who dumbed you and went away. He is not worth it. No body is worth it. Get a grip on your life. Love and respect your self and depend on yourslelf.
Regards bad breath you need to eat proper well balanced meals and go to the toilet regularlly and drink plenty of water to flush the toxins and be active by exercise and joining a sport. Bad breath will go away.Its inside your sluggish stomach.
Dont be desprate and dejected. Love and respect yourself. Nobody will love you more. Every time some one ridicules you, just get stronger. Dont be a quitter. Get stronger. Love your self.

Answer 2

As for you bad breath, have you seen a dentist? You might have an abscessed tooth or something else going on. Go to your health department they are far cheaper then a regular doctor & maybe they can help you with your skin condition. there has to be a reason for the condition & a way to treat it. The health department also has a dental clinic.
And as for that boyfriend you had, good riddens to him. No woman has to be sexually harrassed by any body.
there is also breath arrests gum or there is this mouth wash that is made for this condtion but i can not think of the name of it. Check at Wal-Mart or K-mart they may have it.
You hang in there because you are a very good person, don't give up. Check out the health department see what they can do for you, don't give up. as for this guy you are madly in love with who knows, have you even tried talking to him. Some people see the real person not all the fluff on the outside.

Answer 3

that is horrible that people would treat you this way because you have a physical ailment. Would they treat you differently if you had cancer, I think not. People must understand that this is a disease of the mouth, hallotosis and not lack of hygiene on your part, some advice, which probably you have tried it all is brushing your tongue and gums, flossing, eat three meals a day, avoid garluc, onions, spicy meat and even cheese, fish, cofee, alcohol (so stick to 8 waters a day) carry a toothbrush, rinse out your mouth, chew mints, or gum, eat fresh parsley, or cloves, fennel or anise seeds to chew after odouress meals.This could also be a sign of a serious mouth infection, gastrointestinal problems. Other diseases that cause bad breath are cancer, tuberculosis, syphilis and zinc deficiency. Some drugs include penicillamine and lithium, these can cause bad breath too. Best bet, get checked out and there are government programs who will pay for your prescription if you cannot afford all you have to do is apply also ask you doctor if he has sampler packs of the presciption. Pharmacists are forever giving physicians trial drugs. Good luck.

Answer 4

I dont' have a solution to your problem but all I can say is that you have to look at all the things that make you a beautiful and strong person for having to deal with all of this. Those people who you called friends werent' your friend or else they would not have been so shallow to abandon you. You deserve much better and hang on in there! Don't let people get you down, show them that despite it all, you will deal with all of this and make the best of your life because ultimately all you have is yourself to rely on and be happy.

Let go of this guy. It makes things no better to be obsessing over it. Your day will come and until then do things that you enjoy doing and don't give up on people. Go out there and meet others and if people are understanding then they are your friend, if not, too bad for them for being so superficial and shallow. :)

Answer 5

It would help to go to therapy. If you can't afford it, there are sliding-scale ones, plus community clinics.

Even if the person is paid, you'd be surprised at how much you can benefit from just the knowledge that one particular person out there knows you pretty well, cares about seeing you each week, and wants to contribute to your health!

Try it...you may really find it turns your life around!

Best wishes!

Answer 6

Start with how beautiful you are. Tell yourself that.

Floss your teeth, don't need to tell you to brush, do I? Use baking soda and peroxide paste.

Eat raw parsley.

See your beauty and understand you don't need anyone else to validate your life. Autonomy is power.

Shine like the star you are, sweet. Be good to yourself.