relationship?
2007-08-29 04:16:36 · 31 answers · asked by deedeee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have no respect for him because he told me this online and not in person
2007-08-29 04:27:52 · update #1
I kind of got upset, but later i controlled myself and he told me that i was being a baby. I was more upset about the lack of respect that he had for me. I really want to be his friend also.
2007-08-29 04:43:01 · update #2
and he says that he likes me
2007-08-29 04:47:59 · update #3
he means he will never marry you, nor will he ever want to be exclusive with you.
2007-08-29 04:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is dating other people and wants you to do the same.
Some people do that for different reasons. Some are just meeting people, having sex, and having fun, and aren't even thinking about marriage. Others consider marriage, but really want to know someone first. If you are exclusive when you first start dating, anytime you meet someone new you have three choices--ignore the new person and stay with your girlfriend, cheat, or break up. Some people just want the freedom, especially so early in a relationship, to meet that new person and see if there is anything there. People who have been burned by staying loyal to someone out of habit for months and realizing they aren't in love after investing way too much time together start to value their freedom in relationships.
2007-08-29 11:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means exactly what he says, and you should be thankful that he is being honest with you.
It probably means one of the following four things:
#1 - he is not interested, wants to break up with you, but doesn't have the gumption to do it - so instead he wants you to break up with him
#2 - he is interested in sex with you only
#3 - he is interested in someone else as well as you, and wants to continue to have the freedom to date other people
#4 - he is interested in you, but is otherwise too busy for a serious commitment (common situation for college students)
Whatever his motivation, he does mean that he does not want a traditional, committed relationship with you. So, you have to decide if you're willing to accept that.
And by all means, please use condoms if you're sleeping with this guy. I'm almost positive he's sleeping with someone else. Good luck.
2007-08-29 11:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by july2007bride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants to sleep with you and then he will treat you like dirt afterwards. Damn, why didn't I ask this question two months ago? It just happened to me and it has left me miserable. Don't make the same mistake that I did. Do not sleep with him like the idiot that I was. You will only feel like dirt about yourself afterwards and you will both end up hating each other, when the whole thing could have just been avoided in the first place. Since you're not good enough for him (as far as he is concerned), then he is not good enough for you! :)
2007-08-29 11:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being honest about how he feels. He is not ready for a relationship. Some times a man or women are looking for a friend. A man said this to me one time and he turned out to be my best friend for life. It is woderfull. Give him a chance. Patches.
2007-08-29 11:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Translation: "Can you be my booty call" or "Can we be f*ck buddies?"
There really is no decoding, he doesn't want a girlfriend, a fiance, a wife, a confidant. You shouldn't expect him to be your date to weddings or plays or to show up when anything important is happening in your life. Don't move into his apartment, unless you're just bringing condoms. And there will be no "we have to talk" moments.
Basically if you're looking for anything emotional or beyond a fling, move on with your life now.
2007-08-29 11:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to have sex with you and hang out with you when he wants to, but you can't get angry at him when you see him hanging all over some other girl the next time you see him. He doesn't want to lead you on to think that he cares about you romantically. You're a booty call and that's it. Unless that's what you want...leave now before you get attached.
2007-08-29 11:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it simply means what he said. he doesn't want a commitment and lead you on with your feelings. he's cutting past the bullshit out from start and not wasting both of you guys' time. he just wants to be friends or just simply date. something with no strings attached. you're lucky. a lot of men wouldn't be that honest from the beginning
2007-09-01 21:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by LaidBack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just what it says, he's being candid and up front with u from the beginning, he wants to keep it casual with no hassles or drama, at least respect the guy for his honesty.
2007-08-29 11:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by yawhaneeh53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you for sex and wants to make it clear he has every intention of sleeping iwth you but not forming a lasting relationship.
Basically, he's warning you upfront that he's just going to use you.
2007-08-29 11:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want you to think that you two will be together in a relationship when he is not ready for a relationship . so he is being honest with you to tell you............he wants to be able to see other woman if he chooses to do so
2007-08-29 11:21:50 · answer #11 · answered by $martA$$.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋